Whoa. You’ve answered 2,899 questions.

This doesn’t happen very often. You’ve answered all of the questions!

OkCupid is a phenomenon that began for me in 2003 when it offered just quizzes and test results. You can find out what kind of dater you were, for example, then you could share your results on LiveJournal. And then something happened in the late 2000s, like in 2009, where they matched everyone’s answers together to being compatible or not. It was cool, and I learned a lot about myself through the thousands of questions I began to answer and more importantly, who I get along with. It was like really diving into what my moral compass was (or wasn’t) and how important hanging out with people with the same values I held was. I remember when I was taking an eight hour train train ride that ran along the coastline between Portland, Oregon to Vancouver, British Columbia and finished answering over 3,000 questions from my iPhone on OkCupid. I had a bit of an existential epiphany on that trip.

From there, I began dating people around 2010 to 2012. I would consider this period the ‘golden age’ of OkCupid. They weren’t trying to compete with eHarmony. It showed you compatibility percentages, level of friend percentage and enemy percentages. The people were incredibly interesting and the high percentages yielded more interesting queer and poly people that I was looking for at the time. I ended up marrying a guy with similar progressive values as mine that I met on OkCupid in 2011 and we are still together. Let me repeat that: I married a guy from OkCupid. Honestly, I thank OkCupid for that period of time because it weeded out a lot of attractive people that I otherwise would have been into if I didn’t ‘see’ beneath the surface that they were very religious, politically moderate or conservative or serial monogamists. I am still friendly with a large portion of people I met on OKC in the early 2010s, so I really believed in the totality of the questions.

I stopped using OkCupid after around 2014 when I got busy with a job and my long-term relationship from OkCupid. And many years later, I see billboards with pastel backdrops and very corny and ‘young professional’ and mainstream-looking people in normcore clothes on billboards in Silver Lake advertising OkCupid. Their demographic has a day job at Buzzfeed. I think they’re trying to compete with eHarmony and achieve the mainstream market of daters. I revisited it and the questions have become a lot more dry for the serious eHarmony type dater, and made for fast coupling. They’re made for people who work too much and who don’t have time to fuck around before marriage.

So the reward I get for answering every dumb question on OkCupid is that it ultimately says, “find matches.” Here is every question on OkCupid and every answer I have given. The bold responses are my answers. The italic answers include the comments I wrote. The stars ★ next to a question indicate the questions that I found “important.” This is stuff I have answered between 2010 and 2020, so many answers are going to be different than how I might answer now.

 

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The Questions

 

Do you celebrate the 4/20 holiday?

 

Large-scale seasonal holidays (Christmas, Diwali, Thanksgiving) are:

 

★ What is your favorite Thanksgiving dinner dish?

 

Do you shop on Black Friday?

 

Do you think prescription drugs should be more accessible?

 

★ Tattoos?

 

★ Are you concerned about rising sea levels?

 

How will you vote in the 2020 presidential election?

 

★ Do you support marriage equality?

 

Exchanging memes?

 

Of the frontrunners of the 2020 election, who are you most likely to support?

 

★ Could you date someone who wouldn’t vote for a woman?

 

Do you create your own recipes or follow recipes?

 

★ Do you enjoy cooking dates?

 

RuPaul’s Drag Race?

 

★ How do you feel about cooking with a partner?

 

★ Bigger deal: sharing your bed or your history in bed?

 

Are you willing to go out on dates during the coronavirus outbreak?

 

Are tacos on your top 5 favorite food list?

 

Do you put ice in your wine?

 

If a brand shares your political values does it influence how you feel about it?

 

★ Would you date someone who is the same sexual position as you?

 

Do you enjoy using sex toys with a partner?

 

★ Do you consider it cheating to hook up with the opposite sex?

 

Is pizza on your top 5 favorite food list?

 

Have you faced discrimination within the LGBTQ+ community?

 

★ Would you commit long-term to someone of the same sex?

 

Do you practice safe sex?

 

Shower sex?

 

Are you attracted to one gender more than another?

 

Would you be open to dating someone who does drag?

 

Do you consider yourself an activist?

 

Did your family support you coming out?

 

Could you date someone who doesn’t believe in vaccinating?

 

Does your family understand your gender and sexual identity?

 

Do you feel entertainers should be held accountable for jokes they made many years ago?

 

Are gender and sexuality labels important to you?

 

Do you enjoy foreplay or sex more?

 

★ How long do you typically wait before moving in with a partner?

 

★ Do you clap when a plane lands?

 

Do you support Trump’s travel ban?

 

Does size matter?

 

Does bottoming affect what you eat?

 

Are you openly bisexual?

 

Is LGBTQ+ homelessness an important issue to you?

 

★ Do you mind straight people being at LGBTQ+ bars?

 

When did you come out?

 

★ Is a soulmate worth waiting for?

 

Are you registered to vote?

 

★ Do you vape/use e-cigs?

 

★ Do you feel families should be separated at the US border?

 

★ Do you feel Trump should be impeached?

 

How do you feel about talking politics with your family?

 

★ Do you feel there needs to be prison reform in the U.S.?

 

Would you date someone that vaped/used e-cigs?

 

★ Is a tongue stud a turn-on?

 

How do you feel when you see people getting engaged on your social media?

 

Are family planning benefits important to you when you’re looking for a job?

 

★ Does the US need stricter gun control?

 

★ Is it racist to say you are generally sexually attracted to a particular race?

 

Do you like going to brunch?

 

★ Do you like to argue?

 

Are you willing to pay extra for guac?

 

Do you want to visit Area 51?

 

Do you enjoy planning a date?

 

Do you try to limit your screen time?

 

Do you drink iced coffee all year-round?

 

★ Do you believe in psychics?

 

Would you date someone who doesn’t exercise their right to vote?

 

★ Do you practice self-care?

 

★ Should people be penalized if they don’t vote in elections?

 

Do you volunteer?

 

How often do you check social media?

 

What do you do with your tax refund (if you get one)?

 

★ Can you separate an artist/entertainer’s bad behavior from their art?

 

★ How are you feeling about the 2020 election?

 

How do you feel about coffee dates?

 

What’s more attractive in a partner?

 

Are you excited for the new season of Stranger Things?

 

Do you vote in midterm and local elections?

 

★ Do you care about new Supreme Court appointees?

 

Do you support the Green New Deal?

 

★ Do you have any clothing/accessories with the American flag printed on it?

 

Have you ever practiced an awards show acceptance speech?

 

Do you like going to weddings?

 

Do you still make a summer reading list?

 

Would you rather use Lyft or Uber?

 

★ When can someone wear white pants?

 

How excited are you for the next Star Wars movie?

 

What do you prefer to swim in?

 

Do you like going to summer music festivals?

 

Do you like true crime shows, podcasts, books, etc.?

 

Do you buy a wedding gift when you go to a wedding?

 

Would you wear shorts to work?

 

Do you watch more TV during the summer?

 

Would you rather go to the beach or the mountains on vacation?

 

Do you think social media is contributing to Fake News?

 

Do you think companies should allow employees to have paid period leave?

 

Are you saving for retirement?

 

Would you have children with a partner if you were not married?

 

★ Do you speak more than one language?

 

★ What do you think about gender neutral passports?

 

Do you fold underwear?

 

How often do you speak to your parents?

 

Are you currently saving to buy your own home?

 

Do you meditate?

 

★ Would you prefer a group first date or one-on-one?

 

★ Would you be open to a long-distance relationship?

 

★ Would you live with a partner before marriage?

 

★ How do you feel about having joint bank accounts in a long term relationship?

 

How would you feel if your partner earned more money than you?

 

★ Have you attended a protest march?

 

★ Is it important to you that your partner practices the same religion as you?

 

Do you answer work email on the weekend?

 

★ Freedom of the press is…

 

★ Are you concerned about climate change?

 

★ Do you prefer that your date shares your political views?

 

Do you know anyone who has married someone they met on a dating app?

 

Best first date?

 

Could you date someone who doesn’t vote?

 

★ Do you have any tattoos?

 

★ When you are sleeping, do you prefer:

 

Sharing a toothbrush with your partner is…

 

★ Which of the following has the biggest influence on your behavior?

 

Is foreplay necessary for good sex?

 

Which event sounds most appealing?

 

How frequently do you drink alcohol?

 

Would you rather…

 

If you had a dream in which you were having sex with a close friend, would you tell them about it?

 

Do you feel comfortable in an educational or academic environment?

 

Do you have a TV in your bedroom?

 

Would you date someone who was in considerable debt?

 

Are you friends with mostly men or mostly women?

 

Are the holidays a romantic time of year?

 

Would you introduce a new significant other to your family at the holidays?

 

Would you rather go home for the holidays or travel somewhere else?

 

Is Die Hard a Christmas movie?

 

Do you make New Year’s resolutions?

 

Your family dog/cat is diagnosed with an illness, and the vet bill will be $2,000. Do you :

 

Are you kinky?

 

Do you generally smile at little kids who cross your path?

 

Is it wrong to cultivate or manufacture illegal drugs?

 

Would you ideally like to be married within the next 3 years?

 

Are you ready to settle down and get married right now?

 

Do you think dating apps should be somewhat or completely responsible for helping daters become better, more respectful daters?

 

★ Are you upset when your partner flirts with someone else?

 

★ Do you find that you’re more open-minded after you’ve visited somewhere new?

 

How important do you think it is for people who are dating to share the same home country?

 

Cilantro?

 

Do you think answering yes or no questions will help you find your soulmate?

 

Is it easier for you to talk to people online or in person?

 

Should partners know one another’s passwords?

 

★ Are you a cable cordcutter? i.e. stream only

 

When possible, DIY or buy?

 

★ What is the primary way you get your news?

 

Do you ask to speak to the manager when you’re displeased with your service?

 

If the movie you want to watch is not free on Amazon Prime, Netflix, Hulu, etc, do you pay for it or find another movie?

 

Do you need a college degree to be successful?

 

Would you cosplay at Comic-Con?

 

★ iPhone or Android?

 

Are you 420 friendly?

 

Have you ever tried a marijuana sex product (cannabis lube, condoms, dildos)?

 

Have you fallen head over heels before?

 

★ Are you hoping to fall head over heels?

 

★ Do you think it’s human nature to flirt, even when you’re with someone?

 

If someone you loved was banned from entering your country, what would you do?

 

Are you a hugger?

 

★ Do you think catcalling is a form of harassment?

 

Do you have faith in humanity?

 

Would you choose to use your vacation time to go on a cruise?

 

Would you ever run for office?

 

Are you into PDA?

 

Do you prefer to share food?

 

★ Therapy?

 

Are you an avid reader?

 

What do you think is the best way to connect with someone you’re interested in?

 

Do you believe most disagreements happen because people aren’t logical?

 

If you see an attractive stranger (offline), do you introduce yourself?

 

Getting high on a date:

 

Being romantically approached by a stranger is:

 

★ Could you be in a committed relationship with someone who regularly smokes pot (> 2 times a week)?

 

What’s the best part of dating?

 

★ Do you think statues and streets named after confederate generals should be removed or changed?

 

Have you ever fantasized about hooking up with a co-worker?

 

Would you date someone who did not support the #MeToo movement?

 

★ Do you think it’s important to challenge typical gender roles in dating?

 

★ Would you be upset if your partner sat on someone else’s lap?

 

★ Should your partner have the same taste in TV shows as you?

 

Marvel or DC?

 

Would you consider dating someone who has no interest in sex and experiences no sexual attraction?

 

Should you and your significant other be watching the same TV shows?

 

★ Do you tag your friends in memes?

 

★ Do you turn your phone off at the movies?

 

★ Do you think the military should ban transgender people from service?

 

★ Do you think the US government unfairly over-incarcerates people of color?

 

★ How often do you take selfies?

 

What’s your Hogwarts house?

 

Is a hotdog a sandwich?

 

Do you like writing lists?

 

Are sex and intimacy the same thing?

 

What’s your opinion of the phrase “making love” when it refers to sex?

 

How much do you usually tip a server who did a fine job?

 

When you go out for dinner, which best describes the type of establishments you visit the most?

 

What do you think of the prospect of having sexual intercourse while wearing some type of costume(fur-suit, sci-fi costume, clown suit, whatever).

 

★ Which would you prefer your ideal match to be more into?

 

How do you feel about TV reboots?

 

Do you still order off the kids menu?

 

Are you a coffee snob?

 

Should engineers be required to take humanities classes?

 

★ How often do you go to a place of worship?

 

Are you a good trivia team member?

 

What do you do when a new season of your favorite Netflix show drops?

 

How much have your values changed since you were 16?

 

Do you share your streaming platform passwords with other people?

 

Do you think celebrities should share their political opinions?

 

Would you rather cook your own food or order takeout?

 

★ Do you like using party drugs like MDMA/molly?

 

What is the longest you’ve traveled to meet up with someone from a dating app?

 

Can you tell from someone’s dating profile whether or not you’ll get along in real life?

 

Have you ever owned sex toys?

 

Which is better: sex without sleeping together or sleeping together without sex?

 

Do you hope to move around a lot?

 

Do you ever send naked selfies?

 

Blindfolds in bed:

 

Would you date someone still in the closet?

 

Are you turned on by feet?

 

★ Are you turned on by sex in public?

 

★ Have you ever had a friend with benefits?

 

★ Is the US educational system designed to benefit the rich?

 

★ How important is it for you to help give your partner an orgasm?

 

★ Do you support the Women’s March?

 

How do you feel about golden showers?

 

Is squirting sexy?

 

Would you introduce someone you’ve started seeing casually to your friends?

 

Should there be stricter laws regulating harassment/bullying online?

 

After you stop seeing someone romantically, do you stay friends with them on social media?

 

Do you think big is beautiful?

 

★ Should bathrooms be gender neutral?

 

★ Is mansplaining a thing?

 

Who should pay for Plan B?

 

★ Would you consider yourself a feminist?

 

Would you ever consider making a sex video with your partner?

 

How long after you’ve started dating someone do you follow them on social media?

 

★ Do you need a creative outlet (to play an instrument, paint, write, etc)?

 

Do you ever ghost someone (cut off contact without warning) after meeting in person?

 

Did you vote in the last election?

 

★ When it comes to sex, are you GGG (Good, Giving, and Game)?

 

★ Are you texty before you meet someone from a dating app in person?

 

★ Do you have a side hustle (sideline to bring in extra cash)?

 

★ Would an immigration ban that targets Muslims make the country safer?

 

Do you have student debt?

 

★ Trump?

 

★ Are traditional gender roles important in a romantic relationship?

 

★ Are you flaky (i.e. cancel plans at the last minute)?

 

★ Should the government defund Planned Parenthood?

 

★ Should we be fighting to close the gender wage gap?

 

★ Are you open to a casual relationship (i.e. more than a hookup, less than a significant other)?

 

★ People who were scared shitless after the 2016 US election:

 

Swipe culture in dating apps?

 

★ Should the US build a wall between the US & Mexico?

 

★ Is climate change real?

 

Which is more important right now?

 

★ Should abortion be legal?

 

★ Did you Feel the Bern?

 

★ Would you consider being part of a throuple (a three person couple)?

 

★ Do you believe guns should be allowed in schools?

 

★ Do you ever Skype/call/video chat a date you met online before meeting up in person?

 

★ Do you smoke?

 

Say you’ve started seeing someone you really like. As far as you’re concerned, how long will it take before you have sex?

 

My hair is usually…

 

Have you ever cosplayed? (Dressed up as a comic/anime character)

 

Is it a requirement that you communicate every day with your significant other (via phone, text, in person, whatever)?

 

Do you carry condoms?

 

Would receiving a massage from someone, whom you find very attractive, arouse you sexually?

 

Regardless of future plans, what’s more interesting to you right now?

 

★ Are you a people person?

 

In terms of sex, how experienced would your ideal mate be (with people other than you)?

 

If you had a sexual fantasy that you know your partner is turned off by, would you bring it up anyway or keep it to yourself?

 

Do you enjoy discussing politics?

 

★ Do you prefer hardcore or softcore when it comes to your porn?

 

Is is important that your match be somewhat internet savvy?

 

★ If you were to get married, would you want your partner to change his or her last name to yours?

 

How clear to you are your goals in life?

 

Do you like the taste of beer?

 

Would you consider having a relationship with someone who is married, but no longer has sex with their spouse?

 

Are you squeamish about sharing food or beverages with the person you’re dating?

 

Do you like holding hands?

 

Do you feel obligated to help your fellow human beings?

 

How important is voting to you?

 

If you were walking outside, would you try to avoid stepping on any insects that cross your path?

 

★ When you draw a picture, write a poem, or otherwise do something creative, are you shy about letting other people see it?

 

How often do you masturbate?

 

Do you examine the nutritional information for the food you buy in stores?

 

Which describes you better?

 

Which is worse: being too much of a dreamer or too cynical?

 

Do you own any sexy underwear?

 

Are you a pet person?

 

Do you like to burn incense in your home?

 

★ Do you think men who are sitting down should stand up when a woman comes to the table/enters the room?

 

If you really clicked with someone online and were meeting them in person, how would you greet them when you met them?

 

Do you like to wear a costume for Halloween?

 

How often do you have trouble sleeping at night?

 

Do you enjoy watching movies with subtitles?

 

Do you like to go clubbing?

 

Would you rather have your dream job or your soul mate for the rest of your life?

 

Is it important that humans go to Mars?

 

★ Should a business be able to deny service to a customer if they feel a customer’s request conflicts with their religious beliefs?

 

★ Should illegal immigrants have access to government-subsidized healthcare?

 

★ Should immigrants be required to learn the official language of the country they are living in?

 

Should the government be allowed to use enhanced interrogation techniques when dealing with potential terrorists?

 

Should the government require children to be vaccinated for preventable diseases?

 

★ ______ Lives Matter

 

★ How do you feel about laws which block transgender individuals from using public bathrooms that match their gender identity?

 

Could you date someone with a significant Taoist lean in their outlook on life?

 

Regardless of your actual age, do you consider yourself to be an adult?

 

Which superpower would you rather have?

 

★ Are you a workaholic?

 

Are you better with numbers or words?

 

Are you a beer snob?

 

What is your preferred cuddling position?

 

Which is more important to you: Developing yourself or developing friendships?

 

At this point, are you physically able to have children?

 

When I go out to eat, I go to a large chain restaurant:

 

What style in clothes would you wear most of the time, if you could?

 

Do you ever intentionally try to make people angry just to see how they react?

 

Taking everything into account, do you think the world is a better place than it was thirty years ago?

 

Do you find very outgoing people annoying?

 

Which is more useful to you: street smarts or book smarts?

 

Imagine that a friend sets you up on a blind date that sounds like a perfect match, except for one problem: the date neither speaks nor understands any languages that you do. This is:

 

Motorcycles are…

 

Do you believe that a major goal of educational systems should be to make people “better members of society”?

 

★ Do you think people are capable of being in long term relationships with one person?

 

How would you describe your body?

 

★ Where would you prefer to live?

 

Which makes for a better first date?

 

★ Should wealthier people pay higher taxes?

 

Do you think humans have enough respect for the Earth’s other species?

 

Do you dress up for Halloween almost every year?

 

★ Can you think of someone that you truly hate, not just severely dislike?

 

Do you use foul language?

 

How important is it that your partner is shaved/groomed downstairs?

 

If you found out that your significant other had been in pornographic films, which of the following most closely describes your reaction?

 

Do you believe that alcoholism is a disease?

 

Do you ever ignore people?

 

If your partner pulled out a gram of cocaine and a mirror, how would you react?

 

Do you usually wash your hands before every meal?

 

Do you believe that it is possible for two previously platonic friends to start having casual sex without affecting other aspects of their relationship?

 

How do you feel about crystal healing?

 

How often do you wear underwear?

 

Would you sign a prenup?

 

Do you dream of traveling the world or are you happy where you are?

 

Is intoxication ever an acceptable excuse for acting stupid?

 

Is it possible for someone to really be ‘too nice’?

 

★ How do you take your coffee?

 

★ Do you have a problem with racist jokes?

 

★ Do you like girls with tattoos?

 

Do you enjoy giving oral sex?

 

Are spirituality and religion one and the same?

 

Do you make your bed most days?

 

★ Do you think it is possible for someone to be an Atheist and still have a solid moral framework by which to live?

 

You’re getting ready for work and your lover wants to get frisky. Does this annoy you?

 

It is your first visit to your date’s home. You discover that the decor is dominated by the display of numerous action figures. What is your reaction?

 

Does it bother you when people sing the wrong words to a popular song?

 

Have you ever written something on the wall of a public toilet?

 

Do you have experience being in a slave/master relationship?

 

What’s worse on a first date?

 

★ When in a relationship, what importance do you place upon celebrating weekly or monthly anniversaries?

 

★ If married, when would you expect your partner to wear a wedding ring?

 

If asked, would you share the password to your email account with a significant other?

 

★ What are you eating preferences?

 

How often do you tell your platonic friends that you love them?

 

Would you date someone who is allergic to animal fur?

 

How much would you enjoy hosting a big, crazy party?

 

On a typical night, what time do you go to sleep?

 

What size party would you prefer to attend?

 

★ Improvisational theatre:

 

Are you currently employed?

 

How many books do you own?

 

Which, on you, is closest to perfection?

 

How often do you brush your teeth?

 

Do you cry more than twice a year?

 

Are you physically strong?

 

★ How important is it to you that your partner takes care of their body (ie: working out, maintaining a healthy and attractive physique)?

 

Would you say your actions are guided more by your head or your heart?

 

Would you date someone who’s smart but achieved nothing in life?

 

Do you enjoy Rap/Hip-Hop?

 

If you were really, really drunk, which of the following would you be more likely to do?

 

How many live plants do you have in your home?

 

Have you ever been fired from a job?

 

Could you date a stripper?

 

★ Imagine you hit it off online and arrange to meet someone several days in advance. At the last minute, they cancel, explaining that they are simply too tired. Would you consider rescheduling?

 

★ If you had to pick one of the following types for a significant other, which would it be?

 

If a woman burps out loud, that is…

 

★ Do you like wild parties?

 

Would you prefer to find someone who will shake your life up or make it more peaceful?

 

Are you a Submissive/Bottom or Dominant/Top?

 

Do you often make jokes that offend more uptight people?

 

★ Would you consider having a serious relationship with an active porn star?

 

Do you only date people with athletic and toned bodies?

 

Do you think the International Space Station would be a romantic place to travel to with a partner to exchange vows?

 

Do you have all of your teeth?

 

What is your opinion of sarcasm?

 

★ Could you date someone who is/was any sort of sex worker?

 

Women-what is your dress size?/ Men- what is your shirt size? (ie. US sizes)

 

Which most closely describes how you organize your sock drawer?

 

Would you develop a new hobby/cultivate a new interest just to have something in common with your partner?

 

How tall are you?

 

What are your feelings about Cilantro?

 

Preferred position: are you a top or a bottom?

 

Top or bottom?

 

You’re riding along in a friend’s car when he or she throws some trash out the window. How might you react?

 

★ How much time do you spend going to ballgames and following sports teams?

 

Do you think it’s wrong to use someone’s wi-fi without permission?

 

How much communication is ideal during sex?

 

Could you do 25 pushups without stopping?

 

★ You’re walking around in public and you see a very attractive member of your preferred sex. You walk a little faster to get a better look and you see them light and take an elegant puff of a cigarette. What is your reaction?

 

Underarms can be a hairy subject. How do you maintain your pits?

 

Do you have a fetish that you would like to employ in your next relationship?

 

Would you allow your partner to decide what you wear to bed?

 

Is it possible for you to like someone whom you don’t respect?

 

Can you name any ballet other than the Nutcracker?

 

Do you eat dinner after 10pm?

 

If something you own breaks, which is closest to your first reaction?

 

French new wave films?

 

Are “trendy” and “hip” insults to you?

 

Top or bottom?

 

Are you a collector of things?

 

If a blind date used a coupon while paying for dinner, how would you feel?

 

Do you work at your job because you care, or because you want a check?

 

Have you ever done something reckless that resulted in a major injury? (broken bones, etc.)

 

If someone intentionally damaged your property, would you be more likely to call the police, or to fight them?

 

Could you date someone with no long-term goals?

 

★ Once you’re intimate, how often would you and your significant other have sex?

 

★ You’re up against a nearly impossible challenge. Your ideal partner…

 

If you were involved in a serious relationship, at which of the following points would you begin looking for new potential partners?

 

In a serious relationship, do you feel it’s important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

 

★ You’re out on the street and you encounter some people speaking a foreign language. What’s your reaction?

 

I prefer to sleep…

 

How important is it for your partner to have many friends?

 

Which word describes you better?

 

★ How often do you wear cologne or perfume?

 

★ Which characteristic is most attractive in a date?

 

Would you date someone who was only interested in a committed, long-term relationship?

 

Do you have time for a committed relationship in your life at this point?

 

Do you have a favorite scent?

 

Is it possible for your partner to reveal too much information?

 

★ Would you buy your partner perfume or cologne as a gift?

 

Which is scarier to reveal to a new partner?

 

Who are you most likely to reveal a dark, provocative secret to?

 

When you hear the name Dylan what is the first to come to mind?

 

★ How messy are you?

 

How often do you give Facebook updates?

 

How are your teeth?

 

Imagine being all alone in the great outdoors, miles from anyone, with no communication device. Nobody knows where you are.

 

Would you go on a first date to a nude beach?

 

Even if it isn’t your personal style, would you dress accordingly to a partner’s wishes, just to make them happy during an outing?

 

Do you have a living will?

 

How many times do you usually hit the snooze button on your alarm clock?

 

Do you think you have what it takes to be a successful actor or actress?

 

How many romantic partners have you lived with?

 

Toilet Seat, up or down?

 

Do you believe that people should take a parental fitness test before being allowed to reproduce?

 

Would it be a good idea to pass a law requiring people to take a course and pass a test before being allowed to have a child?

 

Your lover doesn’t like one of your friends! You have to choose!

 

Have you ever seen ghosts, spirits, aliens, or witnessed some kind of paranormal activity?

 

Which of the following forms of poetry best resembles what you desire in a relationship?

 

Have your sexual interests become kinkier as you’ve grown older?

 

Should your mate also become your best friend?

 

Did you have a dysfunctional upbringing?

 

Suppose a close friend’s partner is very attractive and thinks you’re attractive, too. If you could enjoy a few hours of sex with them and your friend would never find out about it, would you do it?

 

Have you ever “regifted” a gift you didn’t like?

 

Pick the best date on this list:

 

Does your ideal schedule involve staying up very late at night and sleeping during the day?

 

Would you consider dating someone who is much kinkier than you are?

 

Are you a ‘double dipper’? In other words, do you ever take a bite of food and then dip it back into a shared sauce or dip?

 

Would you consider attending a clothing-optional costume party where the dress code permits guests to wear nothing more than body paint?

 

Which horror movie would you be most likely to survive?

 

★ How long does it take you to get ready in the morning?

 

Which one would hurt you more?

 

Do you wash your sheets regularly?

 

Do you consider yourself financially responsible?

 

Do you work out a lot?

 

You’ve been on a couple of dates with someone, but you’re not too into them. However, they like you, and keep calling/texting. What do you do?

 

In a relationship communication is key…

 

Do you lift weights?

 

Could you date someone who wasn’t sure what they wanted to do with their life?

 

Are you smarter than absolutely everyone you’ve ever dated?

 

Would you consider dating someone who uses profanity more than not in everyday speech?

 

★ What are your opinions on tattoos?

 

Would you rather be omnipotent (all-powerful) or omniscient (all-knowing)?

 

Do you find British comedies entertaining?

 

Imagine you’re on a date with someone you really like and you decide to go to their place for the first time. Their place turns out to be a pigsty. Your reaction?

 

★ Would you engage in a threesome?

 

How often do you hang out at coffee shops / cafes?

 

In a man is size important? or being able to have average size and being able to use it. or it does not matter at all either way?

 

Does the idea of being attractive enough to manipulate people appeal to you?

 

Do you look better dressed or naked?

 

Would you like to live in a small community where everyone lives and works together, and where all property and possessions are owned collectively?

 

Would you rather date someone very fit/trim, but obsessed with body image and who can’t stop talking about working out; or someone more laid back about body image, but a little more pudgy/unfit?

 

★ Would you ever eat something out of the trash?

 

What would be more likely to bother you in a relationship?

 

If you could have brilliant skill at something, would you prefer:

 

★ Does the idea of flipping a coin to make important life decisions appeal to you?

 

You’ve been dating someone for a few months, and things are going well. Really well. One day they ask you to get matching tattoos. How do you respond?

 

Do you enjoy meaningless sex?

 

Imagine that your partner does not enjoy performing oral sex and refuses to ever perform it on you. How disappointed would you be?

 

How do you eat your cupcake?

 

Can you cook?

 

“It’s not that I’m lazy; it’s that I just don’t care.” Does this statement apply to you?

 

Is it easier to love or to hate?

 

What do you find most appealing in a television series, movie, or book?

 

Have you ever cheated on an exam?

 

Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend’s ex?

 

★ On a scale from 1-4, how would your partner having tattoos affect you?(we’re talking 3 or more, not just 1 or 2)

 

★ Have you used psychedelic drugs (LSD, mescaline, peyote, etc.) or would you like to?

 

How important is it to you to have your own unique thing (like a weekly girls’ night or guys’ night) that you don’t share with your partner?

 

Do you own or ride a motorcycle?

 

In an ideal world, who would get the highest priority in your life?

 

Are you a fan of the works of Ayn Rand?

 

Do trees have souls?

 

Do you think boys should be circumcised?

 

Would you date someone shorter than you?

 

Do you think you have ESP at all?

 

Which sounds like a more appealing way to spend a year?

 

★ How much do you spend per year for shoes?

 

Where do you primarily get the books you read?

 

Is it okay for someone to try and influence their romantic partner’s appearance or clothing?

 

How would you feel about a partner self-stimulating while you are performing oral sex?

 

After dating someone for a while, you finally get to see where they live. They leave you alone to go take a quick shower. Would you snoop?

 

On a daily basis, do you spend a lot of time trying to make yourself look good?

 

How often do you send greeting cards for holidays and birthdays?

 

Have you ever been to prison?

 

Cell phones: good or evil?

 

Would you date someone who states up front that they will never be willing to go dancing?

 

Imagine you’re at an art gallery and you see a canvas painted solid red. It is selling for more money than you make in a year. Which of the following would be closest to your reaction?

 

★ How much do you go “clubbing” (out dancing in bars)?

 

Would you—for any reason—read your mate’s email or pose as them online, without their knowledge and permission?

 

How long do your romantic relationships usually last?

 

How would you react if someone IM’d you and quickly started talking about sex?

 

Do you feel like you’re still hurting from something that happened to you a long time ago?

 

Approximately how many hours per week do you dedicate to spiritual activity?

 

For which emotion is self-restraint the most crucial?

 

Which is a bigger deal for you?

 

Wearing socks with sandals is:

 

Is your second toe longer than your big toe?

 

★ On a scale of 1 to 8, with 1 being exclusively straight and 8 exclusively gay, where do you fall?

 

Which of the following could you most easily live without for an entire month?

 

★ Is Jesus Christ your personal savior?

 

★ Someone in an open relationship asks you out on a date. You:

 

★ Have you ever dated a man?

 

Do you have (or are you getting) a degree from one of the 8 ivy league universities, MIT, Stanford, Duke, U Chicago, or Caltech?

 

Do you find science to be interesting?

 

Who will be responsible for cooking the meals and cleaning the house? Assume you both work.

 

How often do you read before going to sleep?

 

How often do you do things out of spite?

 

Would you ever take your family to a nude beach?

 

Not ideally, but realistically, do you flock to the “bad” boys/girls?

 

Does the idea of living underwater fascinate you?

 

Generally speaking, are you a worrier?

 

Do you usually blurt things out, or do you think carefully before speaking?

 

Would you allow a pet to sleep on your bed?

 

How often do you meditate?

 

Would you rather be the performer, in the audience, or behind the scenes?

 

How many concerts do you attend a year?

 

★ When it comes to right and wrong, which of the following do you think has the greatest impact on your belief system?

 

Would you date someone who has genital herpes?

 

Do you have a desire (even if it’s secret) to take part in sexual activities involving bondage?

 

Other things being equal, would you be more attracted to an artist or a scientist?

 

Is it more important to you that you are tactful, or truthful?

 

How do you feel about putting children on leashes?

 

★ If I saw someone do something that deeply offended me or was illegal, I would:

 

Do you think drug use with your partner can be a romantic activity?

 

Is global warming a serious problem?

 

Is satanism acceptable?

 

★ How do you like your coffee?

 

Does it bother you when people are late?

 

Under the right circumstances, would you allow a partner to lick your anus?

 

Orgasms are clearly the most important part of sex.

 

★ Do you find body hair attractive?

 

If you had children, would you be willing to support a significant other who stays home to raise them?

 

★ Ladies, when is a penis too big? Guys, how big is yours?

 

Would you like to go on a five night spiritual retreat?

 

Compassion is:

 

Are you a Muslim?

 

Would dealing face to face with someone with an impediment (nervous facial tic, bad stutter) make you uncomfortable or frustrated?

 

Do you value humility?

 

Do you believe that courteous behavior, such as saying “thank you” or holding a door, is important even when the other person involved does not deserve it?

 

Imagine your otherwise perfect match has one habit that you find to be very unattractive, but it seems that they are trying to keep it private. Do you ask them to stop?

 

Do you think bodily fluids are inherently gross?

 

If you were with a person who doesn’t like to cook, would you take over this responsibility?

 

Are you annoyed by people who are super logical?

 

Suppose you’re driving, and you hit an animal. You don’t know how badly it’s hurt. Do you:

 

★ Do you prefer to eat organic food?

 

Do you consider a person’s social class when you interact with them?

 

Do you and your ideal significant other enjoy making sarcastic jokes at each other’s expense, knowing that it’s all in good fun?

 

Do you think it’s appropriate to “keep score” in a relationship, to ensure that favors and gifts are at least somewhat balanced?

 

Do you think the government has the right to regulate the ownership and use of weapons?

 

Watching cartoons as an adult is…?

 

What’s a worse trait to have?

 

If political candidates supported marijuana legalization, how would that affect your disposition toward voting for them?

 

Can two people fall in love without ever meeting in person?

 

Which of the following broad gender descriptions are you most attracted to?

 

If you had to choose one, which type of cheating bothers you the most?

 

What is the first definition for the word “composition” that comes to mind?

 

Would it ever be okay to break up with someone by email or text?

 

How often do you use social media?

 

Assuming a given situation is truly hopeless, is it better to accept hopelessness or maintain hope?

 

If your own toothbrush was not available, would you feel comfortable using a partner’s toothbrush?

 

Imagine your partner practices a religion you don’t understand. Do you take the time to learn about it?

 

If you meet someone and they are everything you are looking for, except their body type, do you give them a chance?

 

Would you enjoy going to an all night dance party?

 

Is the idea of being kissed in the rain a turn-on or turn-off?

 

Do you believe in some kind of a spiritual, cosmic force outside the realm of most modern religion?

 

You and your partner are sharing your favorite dessert. Who gets the last bite?

 

Were you picked on a lot in school?

 

★ If I saw someone checking out my significant other, I’d feel:

 

Do you often find yourself wondering What the hell was I thinking?

 

★ How do you feel about documentaries?

 

Do you like watching foreign movies with subtitles?

 

Which is worse?

 

Is jealousy healthy in a relationship?

 

★ If you saw a man knitting in public what would you think?

 

Do you practice Hinduism?

 

What is your favorite transportation medium?

 

What kind of party would you rather throw?

 

Can you change a tire on your own?

 

How do you feel about kids?

 

★ In terms of relationships, which of these is it the most important to find?

 

Would you consider living with a partner who does not want any pets?

 

Would you date someone who was looking for true love – but no sex, at all, ever?

 

Which would you rather choose: peace on Earth or loads of money?

 

Is it okay for you to be irrational in making important life decisions?

 

Do you have a hard time feeling happy when people around you are sad or upset?

 

Are you fetish-friendly?

 

How frequently do you bathe or shower?

 

Are you either vegetarian or vegan?

 

Does your partner have to be an active reader?

 

★ Group sex (with 3 or more people)?:

 

Do you think that smarter people are usually capable of deeper love?

 

Do you typically send thank you cards to people, when they do you favors?

 

★ How often should your significant other buy you gifts, jewelry, or other things more expensive than, say, dinner, cards, or flowers?

 

Would you prefer to be a financial success or to remain true to your principles?

 

Do you believe that regular sex is necessary in maintaining a healthy relationship?

 

Do you think physical love is necessary for happiness in life?

 

Do you enjoy outdoor activities such as camping, hiking or fishing?

 

★ Which is closest to your reaction to foul language?

 

Not including Halloween, do you enjoy dressing up in costumes?

 

Could you date someone who already has children from a previous relationship?

 

Which of the following learning approaches would you prefer?

 

★ Imagine that you have to move somewhere far away. You’ll need to pack all of your stuff and take it with you. All your things could fit nicely inside…

 

A date invites you to their home for the first time. You find their decor to be extremely tacky. How much would this bother you?

 

Before people find out your real age, what do they usually assume? 20

 

Have you ever ridden a horse?

 

If you were to die, would whoever goes through your personal belongings be shocked by what they find?

 

Have instant ramen noodles ever been your nutritional mainstay for more than 2 weeks?

 

If everyone on Earth stopped drinking alcohol, would this make the world a better place?

 

Overhearing a sexual encounter would make you feel…

 

Would you like to receive pain during sex?

 

Would you date a single parent?

 

Do you enjoy it when someone uses refrigerated items or ice cubes on you during sex?

 

The fastest way to piss me off is to…

 

What is more important to humanity:

 

Which cause is most important to you?

 

When are you most creative?

 

Does it bother you when someone regularly speaks in a loud voice?

 

Should cigarettes be illegal?

 

Do you space out or daydream a lot?

 

Which is the smallest amount of money you would stop to pick up if you saw it laying in the street?

 

Could you date someone who doesn’t speak your language very well?

 

What makes a better friend?

 

Do you make an effort to appear intimidating to others?

 

Have you ever brought a stray animal home?

 

Do you think head games are unavoidable, even in the healthiest of relationships?

 

★ Do you like to go to museums?

 

Do you believe in karma?

 

Which is more important for a good match?

 

Would you prefer someone extremely mellow or extremely hyper?

 

I would rather be….

 

Would you and your ideal match eventually feel comfortable farting around each other?

 

Have you ever randomly followed a stranger because you found them attractive?

 

If you took nude photos of your lover, would you give them the prints and negatives (or destroy them) if you broke up?

 

Would you rather know everything about your mate, or be regularly surprised?

 

★ If you had to name your greatest motivation in life thus far, what would it be?

 

When you are at the movies with your date or your friends, how much talking does it take to make you upset?

 

Do you consider yourself an artist of any kind? (Music, painting, poetry, etc. all count.)

 

Do you typically feel better or worse after a social gathering?

 

Manners are:

 

Who do you think was smartest on this list?

 

Which makes for a better relationship?

 

How would learning that a potential match has served in the military affect your interest in him or her?

 

How important are your political beliefs to you?

 

★ How into gay politics are you?

 

★ Are you attracted to dangerous situations?

 

Do you think you can tell how good someone is at sex by how they move on the dance floor?

 

Imagine your view on a controversial topic is very strong. You suspect it to be in direct opposition to that of your date’s parents, who you are just getting to know. Would you argue the issues with them?

 

Is it possible to agree to disagree on religious practices in a relationship?

 

★ If you were going to have a child, would you want the other parent to be of the same ethnicity as you?

 

Do you enjoy being naked?

 

Are you still in love with one or more of your former partners?

 

You go on a date with someone, and during the date you say you would like to go out again. The next day you change your mind. How do you let them know?

 

Should people be allowed to use otherwise illegal drugs where doing so is consistent with their spiritual and/or religious beliefs?

 

★ If you could take only one of the following on a road trip, which would it be?

 

Imagine you’re having the perfect conversation with your ideal partner. What are you doing?

 

★ Would you be willing to adopt a child?

 

Generally, in life, what makes you happier?

 

Of the following, which do you find more fascinating?

 

Who would you prefer as a partner?

 

★ How’s your English vocabulary?

 

Can anything be made the subject of a joke?

 

★ How important is religion/God in your life?

 

Should pharmacies be allowed to sell preparations that you can take to commit painless and effective suicide?

 

Do spelling mistakes annoy you?

 

★ Have you smoked a cigarette in the last 6 months?

 

How often do you wash your bath towel(s)?

 

Would you rather date someone extremely hot or extremely honest?

 

What do you usually wear when you sleep?

 

If a method were available that would cause the extinction of all mosquitoes on Earth, should it be used?

 

Which do you prefer in a significant other, generally speaking?

 

Are you a Buddhist?

 

How many people would describe you as one of their ‘best’ friends, and really mean it?

 

★ Immediately after having sex with a partner, which of the following sounds most appealing?

 

A difficult, somewhat trying relationship where your opinions on many subjects are more often than not divergent, versus an easy relationship where you agree on nearly everything all the time.

 

How do you think your sex drive compares to what is typical for other people of your age and gender?

 

Are you annoyed by tardiness?

 

★ Would you consider dating someone who does not know how to drive a car?

 

Do you consider yourself to be a picky eater?

 

Would you date someone who was already in a committed relationship with someone else?

 

Do you know what a ‘safeword’ is, in a sexual context?

 

Imagine a child is in hospital and needs life-saving treatment, but the child’s parents withold permission for the treatment for reasons based on their faith. Which do you think is better?

 

Have you ever camped out overnight more than a mile from civilization?

 

Are you generally able to forgive and forget?

 

Is being “in-style” with regards to fashion important to you?

 

Do you think most people would prefer to be a lot more like you?

 

Would you consider dating someone who is already involved in an open or polyamorous relationship?

 

Have you been faithful in all of your past relationships?

 

★ Do you like to leave music on while you sleep?

 

Would you want a partner to spend some time and effort toward improving their appearance?

 

BDSM: Without looking it up, do you know exactly what it stands for?

 

Two people both like you. One is more fun, the other is more stable.

 

Would you consider dating someone who is completely nocturnal?

 

★ Should evolution and creationism be taught side-by-side in school?

 

Could you fall in love with someone that you had no initial physical interest in, if you got to know them and they had an amazing personality?

 

★ Could you have respect for someone after having sex with them on the first meeting/date?

 

★ What type of email or IM approach is most likely to make you respond?

 

Is love overrated?

 

Would it be easier for you to make a list of things you want in a relationship or a list of things you want to avoid in a relationship?

 

How important is it for you to make physical contact when showing affection for someone?

 

★ Which of the following would you most expect to determine from a first date?

 

★ Is smoking disgusting?

 

When in social situations with a significant other, would you feel it is necessary to somehow signal to others that you are a couple?

 

Does the idea of actively participating in the reenactment of historical events interest you?

 

★ Which is your preferred method of learning?

 

★ Have you ever yelled at the TV while watching sports?

 

Have you ever been cruel to another person?

 

Did you ever take a class in school just because you heard the person you liked was taking it?

 

Once you realize that something will be almost impossible to attain, does it become MORE or LESS attractive to you?

 

Are you smarter than all your friends?

 

Could you date someone who has radically different musical preferences than you?

 

If your partner made a lot of noise while enjoying sex, would this be a turn-on or turn-off for you?

 

Personally, is sex in a public place hotter than indoor sex?

 

Have you ever had a true one-night stand? (You met someone, had sex that night, and never contacted each other again.)

 

How big is your porn collection?

 

Is there such a thing as having had too many sex partners?

 

Which aspect of the salmon life cycle best corresponds with your current state in life?I’m a(n)…

 

Would you consider dating a divorced person?

 

Can you name your two closest neighbours?

 

Would you like to date someone a lot purer than you?

 

Lolita?

 

You send a message or a picture to somebody on line and they reply: “thnx” What do you think this response actually means?

 

★ Do you prefer to date a non-believer?

 

If you could have one of the following psychic powers, which would you choose:

 

Which would you rather master?

 

How does owning pets compare to raising children?

 

Would you be willing to dress up as a member of the opposite sex if it would turn your partner on?

 

How often do you do laundry?

 

You are more romantic than most people you know.

 

How do you feel about age differences in relationships?

 

Are you naturally a lot better at games than most people?

 

Do you usually carry a concealed weapon other than a gun?

 

Would it bother you if a partner insisted you were perfect and refused to acknowledge your shortcomings?

 

Would you date someone who wore a hearing aid?

 

Do you pee in the shower?

 

Of the following, which do you spend the most time doing while taking a bath or shower?

 

★ How does having sex with someone usually affect your emotional attachment to them?

 

The best days of my life are:

 

Do you stop to enjoy simple things in nature?

 

★ What style of online writing annoys you most?

 

What is worse, being poor or alone?

 

How important is it to be able to ‘agree to disagree’?

 

In a relationship, who do you prefer to be taller?

 

★ Do you think tall, skinny guys/gals are attractive?

 

Do you get angry when you lose a game?

 

Do you like hickies?

 

Would you ever use paper plates just to avoid doing dishes?

 

You’re in a serious, monogamous relationship when your partner gets offered their dream job overseas for three years. They have decided that it’s a chance they just can’t pass up. Which of these choices is most appealing to you?

 

Of the following, which is your preferred method for expressing love to a partner?

 

★ Protesting for civil rights issues is…

 

How good is your singing voice?

 

If an otherwise perfect match gave you an ultimatum to become a vegetarian, what would you do?

 

★ Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

 

If someone asked you, “What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done?” would you know the answer right away?

 

Would you like to “live hard, die fast, and leave a beautiful corpse”?

 

If given the choice of a lifelong relationship with someone you would love but never have a lustful “spark” for or a few years of intense passion with someone you would love intensely, which would you choose?

 

Could you date someone who has terrible taste when it comes to music?

 

When looking for a mate, do you feel that it’s the other person’s job to prove himself or herself to you?

 

On average, do you think people of the world are too sexually repressed, not repressed enough, or just about right?

 

★ Do you prefer sex rough or gentle?

 

Foot fetish?

 

Do you imagine you’re louder than average (for someone your gender) during sex?

 

Have you ever gotten, or would you ever get, a piercing below the belt?

 

Do you see a pattern in the type of people you usually end up in relationships with?

 

How do you feel about government-subsidized food programs (free lunch, food stamps, etc.)?

 

Have you ever used a fake ID to do or acquire something you were legally barred from as a result of your age?

 

Are you a cat person or a dog person?

 

Would you ever consider having a friendship based primarily on sex, with no intentions for love, romance, or long-term commitment?

 

A person you have no special feelings for sends you a loveletter confessing he/she has a crush on you. What would your reaction be?

 

Do you like to spend time with your friends and partner together or only separately?

 

Do you believe that morality is completely relative?

 

If your partner needed lovemaking to always be gentle, would you be fine with this?

 

If a significant other told you that they had two-way communication with the spirit of a dead relative, would you believe them?

 

Have you ever cybered (had cybersex)?

 

Have you ever quit a job without giving at least a week notice?

 

Have you ever played Dungeons and Dragons?

 

Do you like to wear sexy underwear?

 

Do you ever feel socially awkward?

 

Someone has deep feelings for you. Might you abuse this love purely for sex?

 

Imagine you are on a first date and accidentally discover your date is packing condoms. Which would be closest to your reaction?

 

Can just one person significantly change the world?

 

Genital piercings?

 

Does silence make you uncomfortable?

 

If given the chance, would you rather learn to play a musical instrument or learn to speak another language?

 

Would you date someone who has served considerable time in prison?

 

Would you date someone purely on the fact that they were well endowed?

 

Do you like the idea of having a partner bathe you?

 

Does netspeak (e.g., afk, brb, lol, rotfl, ttyl, etc.) bother you?

 

Do superficial people, who place a high emphasis on physical appearance, annoy you?

 

Do you think that a person’s musical preferences are a good indicator of intelligence?

 

Do you care about other people’s suffering?

 

Do you have a dark and morbid sense of humor?

 

Is it possible to love someone you don’t even like?

 

When you get take-out food, do you usually eat out of the provided containers or transfer the food to dishes?

 

Have you ever given out a wrong phone number to politely reject someone?

 

★ On average, which best describes how often you GET WICKED DRUNK?

 

Are you Jewish?

 

★ Do you enjoy intellectual debates on topics like politics, religion, science, or philosophy?

 

Would you prefer to have one true love forever, or lots of fun and meaningful relationships?

 

How often do you use profane language?

 

How long do you believe people need to be in a relationship before getting married?

 

Do you usually feel the need to shower or bathe after having sex?

 

Do you store any of your physical possessions alphabetically?

 

Could you easily obtain illegal drugs through your social network?

 

Are you really into Anime (Japanese Animation) movies?

 

Have you ever faked an orgasm during sex?

 

Which do you prefer?

 

Would you date someone who was currently in a relationship, knowing that you would “be a secret”?

 

How do you feel about Comic Sans?

 

Do you have any “extreme” piercings (this includes anything other than ears, nose, or navel)?

 

Which is more respectable, a sense of responsibility towards others, or a willful sense of individualism?

 

Imagine you have a regular sex partner, but you cannot seem to help them achieve orgasm. Would this bother you?

 

If you could kill all the mosquitoes in the world in an instant, would you do it?

 

Do you enjoy all-you-can-eat buffets?

 

Are you a morning person?

 

If you had to choose between spending a weekend hiking and camping or going to Broadway shows with the same friends, which would you choose?

 

How ticklish are you?

 

★ Do you believe there is some unique human quality that separates us from animals?

 

Is there a point in a relationship where it can get “too serious”?

 

If you were to receive one month’s salary as a gift, which of the following would come to mind first?

 

Would you consider dating someone whose religion or spirituality is the primary focus in their life?

 

How would you feel if a significant other forgot your birthday, nameday, anniversary, or something else similarly important to you?

 

Do you laugh when somebody trips and falls?

 

Do you blush easily?

 

★ You’re early in a relationship and your significant other begins crying. You have no idea what prompted it. What do you do?

 

Have you shaved your head anytime in the last 5 years?

 

Your significant other is traveling and has the opportunity to stay with a good friend that you know they find to be very attractive. What’s your stance on the situation?

 

Setting random things (non-living) on fire just to watch them burn is:

 

Do you believe you could eventually fall in love with someone whom you have no initial physical attraction to?

 

How often are you open with your feelings?

 

Would you radically alter your appearance (hair, clothes, body modifications) for your significant other?

 

You have plans to hang out with some friends, but a person you have recently begun dating calls and asks you to do something for the night. Assuming you are still interested in this person, what do you say?

 

Do people who frequently use lol annoy you?

 

Do you believe that everything happens for a reason?

 

A college-level education is…

 

★ If you had to choose one for the rest of your life, which would you pick?

 

If you’re in a relationship you expect will last for the rest of your life, is it important to you that it be the most satisfying sexual relationship you have ever had?

 

About how long do you want your next relationship to last?

 

★ How important is a potential match’s sense of humor to you?

 

Would you consider dating a High School dropout?

 

Do you think it is important to verbally ask a partner’s permission each time before physically touching them?

 

If you were buying a house or apartment to live in, how important would quiet be to you?

 

How much do other people’s opinions of you influence your decisions?

 

What is too big of an age gap between you and a partner?

 

With respect to sex drive, which of the following has created problems in your prior relationships?

 

When someone speaks with a noticable accent, does that influence your opinion of their intelligence?

 

Which pubic hair style do you prefer for a partner?

 

Would you consider connecting with someone whose relationship status is ‘seeing someone’ or ‘married’?

 

Imagine you have a partner who is able to provide financially for you and any children. Would you consider taking a stay-at-home role?

 

Do you ever make up stories to tell people, just for laughs?

 

Have you ever seen a ghost?

 

Do you believe in ghosts?

 

If you found a valuable item that you knew was lost by someone you dislike, would you return it to them?

 

Could you date someone who was very funny, but could never take anything seriously?

 

Would you be comfortable being poor for the rest of your life?

 

Does the idea of childbirth disgust you?

 

How often do you ‘take it out’ on other people when you’re having a bad day?

 

Do you ever spit on the ground in public?

 

Would you prefer to live in an old house with character and history or a brand spanking new one?

 

If it were possible to change your gender instantly, painlessly, reversibly, and for free, would you?

 

Would you ever date someone who depended on their parents’ money?

 

Which is more effective, militant action or peaceful protest?

 

Is just be yourself good advice?

 

Would you ever consider cutting a partner (who asked for it) in sexual play?

 

How much does physical attractiveness matter to you in a match?

 

★ Should a woman be allowed to remove her shirt (so that her breasts are bare) in a public area like a beach or park if men are allowed to do so?

 

How important to you is being with family during holidays?

 

Do you find arrogance to be a turn-on?

 

Are you okay with people who grow marijuana for their own personal use?

 

Some friends invite you to go camping where there are no showers, no toilets, and no services. The only luxuries would be those you could carry in a pack on your back. Do you go?

 

★ Have you learned more about what you like sexually through long-lasting committed relationships or through casual intimacy with different people?

 

★ Which of the following would you be most disturbed to find in a 13-year-old child’s room?

 

Do you think you could ever enjoy being humiliated as part of a sexual experience?

 

★ Regardless of where you grew up or now live, which of the following best describes the way you see yourself at heart?

 

★ Do you laugh out loud at television shows or movies even when you are alone?

 

Have you ever blacked out from drunkenness?

 

If someone you barely knew asked you how many people you’d had sex with, would you answer?

 

Which of the following character flaws would you be least tolerant of in a potential partner?

 

Do you Google someone before a first date?

 

Imagine that you come home to find a partner pouring red wine all over a stranger’s naked body and then licking it off. Which, if any of the following, would bother you most?

 

When your partner does something that hurts your feelings, which of the following choices most closely resembles your reaction, most often?

 

If you were to fall in love with someone who had a child, do you think you would be willing to love the child as your own?

 

Are you too lazy to go to the kitchen and make some real food?

 

Would you continue dating someone who openly found your friends disgusting?

 

Do you need to know about your partner’s previous sexual exploits?

 

If your significant other actively participates in an activity that you are not really interested in, would you go to offer support if they wanted you to?

 

★ Do you have any tattoos?

 

Have you ever lived in a commune?

 

Would you ever engage in a sexual activity you didn’t enjoy, just because your partner did?

 

Do you think reptiles are cool?

 

★ How many countries have you visited?

 

You’re talking to an attractive person in a bar and almost everything they say is in some way connected to television or films. What does that make them?

 

Do you have conversations with your pets?

 

In the sentencing of a convicted murderer, which of the following sentences would you be most likely to recommend?

 

Would you date someone who used to have a problem with cutting themselves and have scars to prove it?

 

Which do you like more? Be honest.

 

All else the same, would you rather date someone rich or hot?

 

How would you act if you were MUCH better than a match at something he/she is passionate about?

 

Do you more easily fall in love or fall out of love?

 

★ What do you think of the game of Rugby?

 

Do you like going to amusement parks?

 

If your significant other has not reached the same educational level as you, is this a turn off?

 

★ When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

 

Do you snort when you laugh?

 

Would you cheat on your taxes, if you were absolutely 100% sure you could get away with it?

 

Do you ever date to avoid being alone?

 

Which of the following would you rather discuss with someone you just met?

 

Which would you rather lose?

 

Could you date someone who has strong political opinions that are the exact opposite of yours?

 

A billionaire falls in love with you and proposes marriage. You like them as a friend, but are neither in love nor attracted to them. Would you accept?

 

Have you had a girlfriend before?

 

As a kid, who did you like more, Bert or Ernie?

 

If you got married, would you change your name?

 

How important are academic achievements to you?

 

Do you kiss with your eyes open or closed?

 

Have you ever had sex with a person within the first hour of meeting them?

 

Would you ever date someone who’s had cosmetic surgery?

 

How would you feel about dating someone who left their long-time partner heartbroken and ruined to be with you?

 

It’s your first date with someone you recently met. At the end they say “I think I love you.”

 

Would you date someone just for the sex?

 

Do you like sex toys?

 

Does showering or bathing with your partner appeal to you?

 

Do you believe a couple should live together before considering marriage?

 

Have you ever made a booty call (invited over or visited someone you were not actively in a relationship with, just for sexual activity)?

 

How do you feel about internet sex, also known as “cybering”?

 

Have you ever had to sleep on the streets, even for just one night?

 

Teasing:

 

Your significant other is perfectly content with their minimum wage job and has no plans to look for more challenging/better paying work. Is this a problem?

 

Do you believe you’ve lived past lives?

 

★ Are you more polite to strangers or friends?

 

Do you often find yourself worrying about things that you have no control over?

 

How much body hair do you have?

 

Do you think video or computer games are childish?

 

★ Once you take a moral position, can anything be said or done to change your mind?

 

How open are you to trying new things in bed?

 

Are open to the use of a strap-on?

 

★ When you first talk online with someone, which of the following would you prefer to talk about?

 

Not as in whips and chains, but in general, do you prefer your partner to be…

 

Are you at all attracted to people who are less intellectually or professionally motivated than you?

 

I talk about my previous relationships:

 

Does it bother you when people say “PIN number” or “ATM machine”?

 

Do you like kissing in public?

 

Would you describe yourself as sexy?

 

Do you try to draw attention to your body by wearing seductive clothing?

 

Which of the following types of toys did you generally like best when you were about eight years old?

 

★ What is your position on hunting?

 

★ Who are you more worried about disappointing?

 

Would you consider flirting with a traffic cop to avoid getting a ticket?

 

★ Do you like to play drinking games?

 

Do you like cats? Would you consider owning a cat as a pet?

 

Do you flake out on social invitations?

 

It’s okay to be arrogant and snobbish if you know you’re right.

 

Have you ever had sex in a place where there was a high risk of being caught?

 

Would you consider inviting someone to bed with you for clearly-stated non-sexual purposes (e.g., cuddle and sleep only) on a first date?

 

Could you date someone who was really messy?

 

Are you an aspiring actor/artist/writer or other creative type?

 

Would you need to know the sexual history, beyond 6 months back, of someone you dated?

 

Would you consider having a relationship with someone who is very serious about a religion that is not mainstream?

 

Biting?

 

Say you’re with someone you really care about, and they reveal their deepest, darkest secret. Which of the following would be most likely to scare you away?

 

How well do you sleep when you’re in unfamiliar surroundings?

 

★ Is intelligence a turn on?

 

Does violence ever solve anything?

 

Would you date someone who kept a gun in the house?

 

Would you have a sexual relationship with a friend even if you both knew you were romantically incompatible?

 

If your partner were to provide you with a meal, which would you appreciate more?

 

★ How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

 

Upon first meeting, would you be most attracted to a person who:

 

Would you run into a burning building to rescue your pet?

 

Imagine that after becoming romantically involved with someone, they reveal that they formerly earned a living as a prostitute. How would you react to this new information?

 

If you were going to throw a party, which of the following sounds most appealing?

 

What is the most exciting thing about getting to know someone new?

 

★ Imagine that you have a particular sexual desire you would like to satisfy with a significant other, but they are unwilling to help you fulfill it. How would this affect your relationship?

 

Would you consider dating someone who plans to remain celibate indefinitely?

 

Do you believe in an energy field that surrounds us that we can manipulate through reiki, acupuncture, chakra balancing, yoga, or some other system?

 

Imagine that you are in an uncommitted relationship with someone you have grown to deeply care about. They begin to date someone else who seems to make them happier than you do. Which would you do?

 

Did you join OkCupid just so you could find people to have sex with?

 

★ Would you date someone who doesn’t own a car?

 

When having sex, do you like to have your hair pulled?

 

Are you out to your coworkers and/or other random acquaintances?

 

How does the idea of being slapped hard in the face during sex make you feel?

 

Could you live without the Internet?

 

When you’re not in a serious relationship, what do you prefer?

 

★ Do you keep your sexual exploits private?

 

How do you handle a first date that is going horribly wrong?

 

Do you believe in second chances when it comes to romantic relationships?

 

★ Do you wear a helmet when riding a bicycle?

 

What type of humor do you enjoy most?

 

Are you totally anti-war?

 

Would you need to sleep with someone before you considered marrying them?

 

★ Would you date somebody who was a virgin at the age of 25?

 

★ When you are angry or frustrated do you ever throw, smash, kick, or hit inanimate objects?

 

★ How do you feel about women openly displaying tattoos?

 

How interested would you be in knowing the details of a partner’s sexual history?

 

★ Would you consider using drugs prescribed by a psychiatrist to improve your personality?

 

Should recreational drugs be legalized, regulated, and taxed?

 

★ If mind-altering drugs were proven to be good for your body and still got you high, would you take them?

 

★ Could you date someone who does drugs?

 

★ What’s your deal with harder drugs (stuff beyond pot)?

 

During what console generation did you enjoy video games the most?

 

★ Have you had a boyfriend before?

 

A difference of opinion over which of the following topics would most likely make you think twice about dating someone?

 

Would you date someone who was always optimistic?

 

★ Should governments control population by placing legal limits on childbearing?

 

★ Could you date someone who loved you with all their heart, and whom you liked a lot, but who was terrible in bed?

 

★ Would you rather play Scrabble, go out dancing, or get drunk?

 

★ What’s more important to you?

 

Have you ever dated a woman?

 

Divide your age by 2. Have you had sex with at least that many people?

 

Can you remember the names of everyone you’ve ever had sex with?

 

★ Could you date someone who was really quiet?

 

★ Would you pay for porn?

 

Do you ever want to punch people you don’t know, right in the face, for superficial reasons (the way they grin, their clothes, their voice, etc.)?

 

★ Ideally, what portion of your total hobbies and other recreational activities would you like to share as common with a partner?

 

Board games?

 

Do you know the first name of every person you’ve ever made out with?

 

★ What is the worst personality trait someone can have?

 

You are interested in someone, and you discover that they were a nerd in high school. How does this affect your opinion of them?

 

Do you prefer a partner to be more masculine or more feminine?

 

Do you think that people should be allowed to marry more than one person at a time?

 

Do you mind when people crack their knuckles?

 

To you, which adjective best describes hopeless, unrequited love?

 

Is it okay to answer your cell phone while out with a friend or on a date?

 

★  You’re in a new relationship and your partner admits that they have had 14 sexual partners. Does that sound like a lot to you?

 

Would you ever consider a relationship where you would take on an exclusive sexual role as master or slave?

 

★ Which olfactory strategy would you prefer a partner take when on a date with you?

 

★ Suppose a potential significant other is difficult or impossible for you to “read”, emotionally. You find this:

 

★ On your first visit to a friend’s home, which would bother you more, the open display of a religious altar or of a porn library?

 

★ If someone identifies as a feminist, does that raise or lower your opinion of them?

 

★ Would you object to someone bringing a young child along on a first date?

 

★ Your a bitch! What bothers you more about this sentence?

 

★ What kind of rides do you like at amusement parks?

 

★ Which of the following best describes your typical demeanor?

 

★ How does finding out someone has served in their country’s military affect your respect for them?

 

★ Is there at least one nude photo of you on the internet?

 

Which of these is wrong?

 

Would you date someone significantly (9 years or over) older than you?

 

★ Is long hair on a guy inappropriate?

 

★ Is it possible for your partner to be too ambitious?

 

Imagine you are very interested in a long-term relationship with someone. Would it be worse if they wanted you only for casual sex or if they were not interested in sex with you at all?

 

★ Do you believe reason is more important than emotions in solving problems?

 

★ Are you out to your family?

 

★ Which best describes your political beliefs?

 

★ Which is bigger?

 

★ Would you prefer to date someone way dumber than you, or way smarter?

 

★ Do you prefer the people in your life to be simple or complex?

 

★ Would you go out with a smoker?

 

★ Do you ever feel the need to get really drunk?

 

★ Which of the following types of intelligence do you value most?

 

Beards: cool or ugly?

 

Do you believe morality is universal, or relative?

 

★ How willing are you to meet someone from OkCupid in person?

 

★ Do you enjoy intense intellectual conversations?

 

What’s your take on “professional” wrestling?

 

If someone wrongs you do you exact revenge?

 

Do you usually pamper the person who you are with?

 

★ There are 3 wells: Beauty, Wealth, and Love. From which would you drink?

 

Would you consider dating someone who wears a wig because of hair loss?

 

After sex do you clean up right away?

 

Could you be with someone who would really rather die than get old?

 

Do you check to be certain all of the entry doors at your residence are locked before going to sleep?

 

Do you enjoy doing silly things with your friends that may seem childish to others?

 

★ Would you walk up to a stranger and tell them you think they’re beautiful?

 

You flush the toilet…

 

When you’re alone, do you talk to yourself out loud?

 

Have you ever gone skydiving?

 

Does the car someone drives say a lot about their character?

 

Were you in love with the first person you ever slept with?

 

Has anyone ever accused you of being too clingy?

 

★ Would you consider dating someone who’s never been in a relationship before?

 

If you really needed some cash, would you lie to get it?

 

Is it morally right for society to allow parents of children too young to make their own decisions to deny them the medical attention they require for survival for religious reasons?

 

Do you consider taxes a form of theft?

 

Does fashion matter to you?

 

Do you believe in miracles?

 

Homeschooling is…

 

Would you date someone who has never been in any kind of relationship before?

 

How important is it that the interior furnishings in your living environment be of an up-to-date style?

 

Would you be willing to date a musician?

 

If you had a potentially harmful addiction such as smoking, drinking, or drugs, how do you think you would you feel if a significant other tried to get you to stop?

 

Do you feel like a ‘complete’ person when you are not in a relationship?

 

Which is more true for you?

 

Would you consider naming a child after an unusually-named fictional character?

 

Would you ever consider getting plastic surgery if your partner requested you to do so?

 

Would you like to be the supreme ruler of all people on Earth?

 

As a parent, would you consider your own children to be more important than other children?

 

If your life as it stands right now were as good as it was ever going to get would you be okay with that?

 

If a clone was made of you, would you sleep with it?

 

How often do you (or would you) call in sick to work or school when you are not actually ill?

 

★ If you were dating somebody that you met online, would you be reluctant to tell your friends?

 

Do animals have “souls” like humans do?

 

Would you cut off your own good hand, if you knew it would magically solve poverty in the world?

 

Would you consider going ‘off grid’ to live with someone who only had solar power, a wood stove, an outhouse, etc?

 

Have you ever attended — or would you attend — a Sci-Fi/Anime/etc convention?

 

The person you are dating has a different faith or religion than you. They ask you to go with them to a religious function. Do you go?

 

Assuming one existed whom you found sufficiently attractive, would you consider dating your cousin?

 

Suppose you’re dating someone who seems to have long-term potential. You discover that they want to urinate on you during sex. Would you consider staying with this person?

 

If you saw an acquaintance acting incredibly silly when they thought nobody was watching, would you be more attracted or less attracted to them?

 

Would you risk your life for an animal?

 

Hypothetically, do you think you would be good at being a porn star?

 

What’s your relationship with marijuana?

 

Can you tell the difference between very good wine and pretty good wine, just from the taste?

 

Are you good at explaining things?

 

Do you feel that you’re usually at least one step ahead of most people you talk to?

 

Do you enjoy flowers?

 

Is the idea of taking a long road trip with a partner appealing to you?

 

Do you consider yourself to be photogenic?

 

Do you have rhythm (at least enough to find the beat of a song)?

 

If you were forced to choose between saving the life of a beloved household pet or saving the life of a human stranger, which would you save?

 

Have you ever taken any pills hoping they would help you lose weight?

 

Is it okay to search your child’s room, to make sure they aren’t doing anything you don’t want them to do?

 

Would you ever sleep with a porn star?

 

Are you better looking than most people?

 

Do you own any dice with more than six sides?

 

Would you rather spend the rest of your life with one lover, but no friends; or with many friends, but no lovers?

 

If you’re stranded on an island, with absolutely no food, and your companion dies, would you eat them to survive? Assume you have fire for cooking.

 

Do you have a checklist of mandatory traits that you absolutely require in any significant other?

 

Would you have sex with someone, if you were blindfolded and would never know who it was, only that it would be someone you had never met before?

 

★ Are you more horny or more lonely?

 

How old were you when you lost your virginity?

 

Would being in the same room with a couple of friends who are having sex bother you?

 

Do you think it is acceptable to smoke tobacco in front of children?

 

Would you ever seriously date someone twice your age?

 

Are you a virgin?

 

★ Ideally, who would you prefer be the main caretaker for your children when they are too young for school/preschool?

 

★ Do you get depressed much?

 

★ Is a sinful or immoral thought just as bad as acting on that thought?

 

★ When you break up with someone, do you tell them the real reason(s) or do you try to let them down as easy as possible?

 

Would you rather give a nice gift or receive one?

 

How often were you picked on by other kids your age when you were growing up?

 

Do you put the shopping cart back at the grocery shop?

 

Do you have a nervous habit, like biting your nails?

 

★ When working in a group, you are most comfortable:

 

Do you think taxes are justified?

 

Have you ever lied to a partner about your sexual history?

 

If you could triple your money by investing in a company whose business practices you disapproved of, would you invest?

 

★ If you found out that someone you were interested in has several other people interested in them too, how would this affect your behavior?

 

Are you comfortable with who you are?

 

Someone is staring at you, and you notice. Do you:

 

When using a computer, at a desk, do you:

 

While drinking in an out-of-the-way bar, you see a friend’s spouse having a romantic tC3AAte-C3A0-tC3AAte. Do you mention it to your friend?

 

★ As a rule of thumb, how many serious prior relationships should a person have had before they are experienced enough to make a marriage decision?

 

Anyone can be financially successful, if only they’re willing to try.

 

Pretend time! Say someone (who lives far away but somewhere you’ve wanted to go for a long time) messages you online. Having a great time talking for an hour or so, they offer to fly you there the next day to meet them. What do you do?

 

Choose a romantic three day weekend with your significant other.

 

Are you concerned with your image and the way others perceive you?

 

Do you have an ex that you would really like to date again?

 

If you could save the life of an obscure endangered creature, or make a multi-million dollar profit, which would you choose?

 

★ If you had an eighteen year old son or daughter who wanted to become an adult film star, how would you react?

 

Is it logically inconsistent to support the death penalty but oppose abortion?

 

Would you date someone who has cold-sores (oral herpes)?

 

Is evil necessary in the world?

 

If you had a one-night stand DURING a relationship, would you confess to your mate?

 

Do you believe that adults should be able to carry firearms in public?

 

Would you consider performing anilingus on a partner who asked you to?

 

Are you going to run away as soon as it is commitment time?

 

Have you ever seen your bestfriend naked?

 

★ Do you feel guilty or bad after having sex?

 

Animal testing is…

 

Do you know how to use a darkroom to develop negatives and prints?

 

Have you ever tried silent dating?

 

Are your birth parents divorced?

 

Have you ever initiated contact with a friend who you hadn’t talked to in over a year just to see how they are doing?

 

Were you born on a Zodiac cusp? In other words, do you have two alternating Zodiac signs?

 

Do you have a recording of yourself singing?

 

If you want to get to the top of the stairs sooner, do you:

 

Did you ever study Latin, Ancient Greek, or any other dead language, for at least a year?

 

When you don’t know a word, do you look up its definition?

 

Can you read sheet music?

 

Do you have a photographic memory?

 

Do you own a record player?

 

Have you ever been a member of an organization like Girl Scouts, Girl Guides, Boy Scouts, or Campfire?

 

★ Are you comfortable with your sexual preference?

 

★ Do you chew tobacco?

 

Do you regularly paint or sculpt?

 

Do you have your own web page?

 

Do you enjoy crossword puzzles or jumbled word puzzles?

 

As an adult, have you ever been single for more than a year straight?

 

Have you ever written a book?

 

Has anyone ever written you a romantic poem?

 

Have you ever tried Yoga?

 

Do you enjoy learning about your heritage?

 

Do you wear a suit to work (or female equivalent)?

 

Have you ever skied, snowboarded, surfed, or wind-surfed?

 

Do you own any cookbooks?

 

Have you ever studied math BEYOND calculus?

 

Have you ever written a screenplay or stage play?

 

Do you know what the golden spiral is?

 

Did you ever receive any sort of non-athletic award during your years in school?

 

Do you know how to drive a stick shift (manual transmission)?

 

★ Have you ever had cosmetic plastic surgery?

 

Do you play any musical instruments?

 

Could you name 5 impressionists, and a painting by each?

 

Which are you better at remembering, names or faces?

 

Are you really good at understanding people quickly?

 

Do you know any programming languages?

 

Have you ever cried during a movie?

 

Would you ever stop dating someone just because you discovered their parents were hideously ugly?

 

Have you ever worked in a customer service job?

 

Does the fact that you have never done something before, USUALLY increase or decrease its appeal?

 

Have you ever started your own business?

 

Homemade/handmade gifts are more…

 

Do you listen to podcasts?

 

Have you ever traveled around another country alone?

 

Do you currently grow any of your own food?

 

Is taking care of your body important to you?

 

Do you see a doctor for a yearly check-up?

 

Do you own shares in companies traded on a stock exchange?

 

Do you talk in your sleep?

 

Do you keep a blog (online journal)?

 

Have you ever lived outside the country of your citizenship for a single period that exceeds three months?

 

Electric current is best described as:

 

When was your favorite book written? If you have more than one favorite, pick your favorite period of literature.

 

Do you know CPR?

 

Have you performed in a theater setting as an adult?

 

Have you ever seen a therapist?

 

Can you recite any written literary work from memory, including a favourite poem?

 

Have you performed any charity work in the last year? (We mean labor, not donating money)

 

Do you feel nauseated at the sight of blood?

 

Have you ever intentionally left a book in a public place, hoping someone else would pick it up and read it?

 

If you discovered upon death that you must reincarnate into an animal, but are only allowed a broad choice as follows, which would you select?

 

Do you currently own a library card?

 

Do you wear dentures?

 

Have you ever raised an animal for food?

 

Do you bite your toenails?

 

Have you ever written a song?

 

Do you have a really good relationship with both your parents?

 

Do you take pills when you have a headache?

 

Would you, or did you, go to your 10-year high school reunion?

 

Do people tend to turn to you for answers pertaining to subjects you know little about?

 

Have you ever been arrested, even if just for a small crime or misdemeanor?

 

★ Have you ever been outside of your own country?

 

Are you a highly skilled writer?

 

Do you have a current passport?

 

Do you say ‘Thank you’ to wait staff when served in a restaurant?

 

What kind of education did you have growing up?

 

Do you have dessert after dinner?

 

Do you know the square root of 256 off the top of your head?

 

Do you generally finish all of the food on your plate?

 

Do you pay your bills in full and on time, every month?

 

Do you know who wrote: “Was this the face that launched a thousand ships/And burnt the topless towers of Ilium?”

 

Do you like stand-up comedy?

 

★ Do you have any credit cards?

 

Do you currently own or have you ever owned a suit/dress that cost $1000 or more?

 

Do you talk about your sex life with either of your parents?

 

Would you be turned on by your partner undressing you before sex?

 

Have you ever been barred from a bar for any reason other than being underaged?

 

★ Do you enjoy learning about other cultures?

 

★ What portion of your friends are citizens of a country other than your own?

 

Do you understand quantum physics?

 

Have you ever had an abortion/requested a mate to get one?

 

Can you name 5 operas, and their composers?

 

Do you know and enjoy chess?

 

Do you enjoy keeping up to date with the latest technology news?

 

Break-ups. Which has happened more?

 

If possible, would you prefer to date someone a lot more attractive than you, or about the same?

 

Can you name 5 directors and a film that each made, from before 1980?

 

Do you like logic puzzles?

 

★ Do you own a fur coat?

 

★ Do you have a good imagination?

 

Do you iron your own clothes?

 

Do you crack your knuckles?

 

Would you rather a partner who:

 

Have you ever created a piece of art for a friend, just because you were thinking of them?

 

To your knowledge, do people have an unusual or humorous nickname for you?

 

Do you hold the door open for someone behind you?

 

Do you write poetry?

 

When cooking food in the microwave, do you often impatiently hit the cancel button within the last few seconds rather than waiting?

 

Do you like to listen to audiobooks?

 

Those ___ want ___ go, ___.

 

In high school, were you one of the “cool” kids?

 

Should children be taught self defense?

 

Do you hitchhike?

 

Could you sustain a serious relationship with someone who earns considerably less than you?

 

★ Do you often sing or whistle, just for fun?

 

★ Do you hang out with the same group of friends almost every time you go out?

 

Do you have a distinctive laugh?

 

Parlez-vous franC3A7ais?

 

Have you created a ‘Things To Do Before I Die’ list?

 

When it comes to music, do you have a strong preference for male or female vocals?

 

Have you ever been described as “fidgety”?

 

Have ever performed CPR on a real person?

 

Do you have a car?

 

Have you ever tracked someone down just to apologize for something that you did years before?

 

Do you have a thing for foreign accents?

 

★ Are your decisions generally more pro-active or reactive?

 

Were you born in the United States?

 

For you, would getting amnesia be a good thing?

 

Do most tough life problems have a solution?

 

How much time do you spend doing volunteer work each week?

 

★ Have you ever stood someone up on a date? (not shown up at the arranged time and didn’t call to cancel ahead of time)

 

Do you have a vanity license plate?

 

Do you enjoy being photographed?

 

Who would you lie to first..

 

Have you made special efforts to keep any favorite toys from your childhood?

 

Have you ever fully read a book over 1000 pages?

 

Do you read in the bathroom?

 

Would you consider dating a widow or widower?

 

Other things being equal, would you prefer a job that requires you to be mostly on your feet or mostly sitting down?

 

Can you identify a French Manicure?

 

★ If your friend had really bad breath, would you tell them?

 

Do you enjoy creating mathematical problems to solve by yourself?

 

Has any person or organization ever filed a restraining order against you?

 

★ Do you currently subscribe to any pay-for-play online games?

 

Do you enjoy improvisational comedy?

 

Would speaking in front of a large group make you nervous?

 

Are we ever going to have those flying cars they’ve been promising us?

 

Do you, or have you ever, read a text book or technical manual for fun/pleasure?

 

Would you consider dating a psychiatrist?

 

Do you read fan fiction?

 

Do you find people from different countries more interesting, on average?

 

★ Have you ever donated blood?

 

★ Do you wear expensive designer clothes?

 

You wake up 20 minutes before your alarm is scheduled to go off. What do you do?

 

★ If you saw a really fantastic magic trick performed, would you want to know the secret behind how it was done?

 

Have you ever turned down a date, for any reason?

 

Do you have a survival kit prepared just in case a disaster occurs and normal services are disrupted for an extended period of time?

 

Have you ever had a precognitive dream?

 

Have you typically researched the policies of companies before you bought products from them?

 

★ Are you interested in learning to speak another language?

 

On average, how do your friends compare to you, age-wise?

 

Do you read the news most days?

 

Have you ever read Shakespeare, other than for a class?

 

If someone compliments you, aren’t they usually trying to get something from you?

 

What’s the gender distribution of the vocalists in your music collection?

 

If while visiting a friend’s house, you notice a painting hanging slightly off kilter. Do you adjust it?

 

Do you know all the words of your national anthem?

 

Would you ever date someone who worked at a high-risk job? (Law Enforcement, Fire Dept, etc.)

 

★ Are you comfortable eating with chopsticks?

 

Would you say you have…

 

Do you like word games like Scrabble or Boggle?

 

★ When taking a cab, do you like talking to the driver?

 

Do you think most people your age would guess what kinds of music you listen to or don’t listen to just by looking at you?

 

Do you enjoy gardening?

 

Can you name five current world leaders?

 

★ Do you enjoy taking pictures of yourself?

 

★ Have you ever recited a poem that you did not write to someone as a means of expressing your mood or feelings?

 

★ Do you like to surround yourself with pictures of loved ones?

 

★ Would you be able to tell a Manet painting from a Monet painting?

 

During conversation, do you gesticulate?

 

Do you like to interpret your own dreams?

 

Have you ever purposely pretended to be ignorant about something you have knowledge of because you wanted to hear someone else explain it?

 

Do you more often get angry with yourself or with other people?

 

If you’re wrong, do you have a hard time apologizing?

 

★ Where do you spend the majority of your time not including work or sleep?

 

Do you think most people are lonely?

 

You’re dating someone new. You discover that they have a housemate the same gender as you. This:

 

★ Are you more of a fast or careful talker?

 

★ Would you consider attending the wedding of a relative you haven’t seen since childhood?

 

Are you likely to make long, friendly conversation with strangers?

 

Think of when you were a little kid and choose the most appropriate answer.

 

★ Do you enjoy chatting on the phone with your friends?

 

Do you ever rehearse or plan conversations before actually having them?

 

★ Do you stay updated on world events?

 

★ How many hours a day do you prefer to sleep?

 

★ Receiving anal sex?

 

Do you tend to be attracted to people who remind you of old loves?

 

Do you routinely find yourself picking up on the logical fallacies in things people say?

 

Would you rather have complete mastery of one skill or be good at many?

 

Have you ever stolen a glass from a bar?

 

When buying groceries, do you usually bring reusable bags to carry your food in?

 

★ When purchasing groceries, do you help bag your own items?

 

A photographer approaches you on the street and asks to take your picture. What do you do?

 

Does the idea of time travel appeal to you?

 

Which of these four planets in our solarsystem would be closest to your own characteristics?

 

Have you ever arranged to have a friend call you while you were on a date to provide an excuse in the event that you might want to end it early?

 

Do you have any close friends who are more than ten years older or younger than you?

 

Would you be interested in running for any public office? (Mayor, Governor, Senate, President, etc.)

 

Do you believe that mind and body are separate entities (Dualism) or do you believe that they are in a state of unity? (Monism)

 

Do you wear a lot of black?

 

Would you buy cigarettes for a fifteen year old who asked you to?

 

Is your alarm clock :

 

When you see something on sale that’s buy one, get one free, does it make you want to buy it even if you don’t need it?

 

★ Do you sleep with a stuffed animal?

 

Have you ever dyed your hair a real crazy, unnatural color?

 

Have you ever taken free furniture somebody else left at the side of the road for use in your home?

 

Have you made plans to survive a natural or man-made disaster where you live?

 

★ Do you feel that you have learned from past relationships?

 

★ How fast do you walk?

 

★ Are you very close to your family?

 

Is it okay to recycle other people’s jokes and use them as your own?

 

★ Would you ever ask your parent(s) for love advice?

 

Is there something you do that you are one of the best in the world at?

 

Does SCUBA diving interest you?

 

Have you ever been ashamed of being in love with someone?

 

Have you ever skinny-dipped?

 

If you had first pick one of three desks, which one would you choose?

 

Have you ever gone white water rafting?

 

Do your parents have strong opinions about what kind of person you should marry?

 

When you get home, do you usually want to tell someone about your day?

 

★ Would you swim in a natural body of water without being able to see or touch the bottom?

 

Are some of your best friends people you met or know online?

 

Do you hit the snooze button more than once on a typical morning?

 

If you could only keep one sense, what would it be?

 

Other than for costumes, do you purchase and wear second hand/vintage clothes?

 

★ Do you enjoy visiting libraries?

 

Can most babysitters be trusted with children?

 

If you had to guess, do you think humans will go extinct in the next 1000 years?

 

Would you consider dating a deaf person?

 

Do you like reggae music a lot?

 

Do you find it easy to talk to members of the opposite sex?

 

Did you have childhood heroes? If so, were they real people or fictional characters?

 

Would a partner with big hands and feet (bigger than average) turn you off?

 

Have you ever broken up with someone without being face-to-face?

 

Have you ever stolen anything from a partner?

 

★ Would you rather have:

 

★ Are you almost always on time?

 

★ Do you make impulse purchases a lot, like gadgets you don’t need, or clothes that are too expensive?

 

You realize after about two minutes that you’ve accidentally given a stranger incorrect directions. You are both traveling on foot. You:

 

★ How organized are the files on your computer?

 

Do you own anything “lucky,” a charm, religious symbol, an item of clothing, or a keepsake that you think helps things turn out your way?

 

★ When you’re around new people, are you more of a leader, or are you more cooperative?

 

Do you ever give money to street performers?

 

Have you ever formed an opinion about a stranger in a grocery store, based primarily on the items he or she is buying?

 

Have you ever entered into a relationship out of desperation?

 

Have you ever considered taking some sort of official position in an organized religion?

 

★ When it comes to travel, which do you prefer, trains, planes, or automobiles?

 

Do you feel you were born in the correct era/time period?

 

Do you like to play contact sports?

 

★ If you walked in on your partner masturbating, what would best describe your reaction?

 

Have you ever feigned interest in a person you were not interested in just for the attention?

 

Imagine you are part of an expedition into a dark and foreboding forest. Where in relation to the group would you prefer to walk?

 

Have you ever been to a strip club?

 

Might you laugh at someone who asked you out, if you were not interested?

 

Is it easy for you to throw away things that you don’t really use anymore?

 

How often do you walk around barefoot?

 

Imagine you are put on hold while making a call. A song you like comes on while you wait. Would you sing along?

 

For a pet, would you prefer:

 

Do people tend to take you seriously, or usually think you’re being sarcastic?

 

How many fortnights are in a year?

 

★ Is it ok for a woman to ask a man out on a date?

 

Do you write creatively (novels, plays, poetry, and so forth)?

 

Do most politicians really want to make the world a better place?

 

If you found yourself falling in love with someone but weren’t sure if they fully returned the feeling would you:

 

Have you ever donated your money or your time to a political campaign or political organization?

 

★ Are bookstores fun?

 

Do you use hand sanitizer?

 

Have you ever scolded another adult in public for their bad behavior?

 

Do you have strong feelings about what kind of computer you use? (Apple, PC, or UNIX, for example)

 

Which of these is likely to make you more nervous?

 

Have you ever dated someone you didn’t even like out of sheer loneliness?

 

Would you rather be famous and hated, or slip through the cracks?

 

Do you like going to the movies alone?

 

Is it *really* ok for men to cry?

 

Is it easy for you to apologize when you know you have made a mistake?

 

Are carbohydrates something you think about?

 

If there were a political candidate who you really liked, how would you offer support in terms of time or money?

 

What’s the best way to handle a bad kisser?

 

Excluding childhood fights, have you ever punched someone in the face?

 

When a date is coming to your house do you strategically place things (for example: books, CDs, DVDs, gadgets, etc.) to project a certain image?

 

If you could read minds, would you tell anyone?

 

Which are you MORE of?

 

Do you like to watch the Olympic Games?

 

If a close friend doesn’t call you for a week, do you start worrying that he hates you?

 

Are you registered or have you otherwise signed up as an organ donor?

 

★ Would you rather stay in an unhealthy relationship, or be single?

 

Have you kept any old love letters from ex-lovers?

 

If you had a partner who was cheating on you, would you want to know?

 

Do you have a problem with people who wear leather clothing?

 

★ Do you tend to blow off your responsibilities?

 

★ Do you have any gay, bisexual, or transgender friends?

 

In nice restaurants, do you always put your napkin in your lap?

 

Do you have any irrational fears?

 

Are you totally comfortable being naked around your partner, not just during sex?

 

Would you prefer to climb three floors of stairs, or wait five minutes for the elevator?

 

Would it be a problem for you if you discovered your partner is a terrible dancer?

 

When in a relationship is it ok to start saying “I love you”?

 

Is it acceptable for someone over the age of 20 to watch cartoons/read comic books?

 

Your partner is an advocate for the GLBT community, would to support him/her by attending a GLBT meetings or gay pride celebrations?

 

Are you romantic?

 

Are you, or have you ever been, in a band? (A solo act is fine, too. Don’t count school bands.)

 

Are nudity and pornography the same thing?

 

Would you ever wait beside the red carpet at an opening night or awards ceremony, just to catch a glimpse of your favourite celebrity?

 

Are you more likely to hold a grudge or forgive someone?

 

Have you made fun of anyone recently, knowing that it probably upset them?

 

Do you enjoy any of the following cards games: Cribbage, Canasta, Gin, Euchre, Hearts, Spades, Pinochle?

 

★ Which of the following is MORE important to you:

 

Do you think most people who are happy in relationships are just lying to themselves?

 

It’s important that I smell good.

 

Would you like to go birdwatching with your partner?

 

Do you go to LAN parties?

 

Do people that you’ve dated/tried to date ever tell you that you’re just too “nice”?

 

Are you quietly angry a lot of the time?

 

Are you an insomniac?

 

If you dislike your food in a restaurant, do you typically send it back?

 

Is it easy for you to dispose of things that you really don’t use anymore?

 

Would you prefer it if fashion models were the same size and bodytype as the average citizen?

 

In general, how relaxed are you on a first date?

 

Do you read erotic fiction?

 

Can you accept a mate’s limitations without judgment?

 

★ Has anyone ever accused you of being “high maintenance”?

 

Is it wrong to date someone in your workplace?

 

If you turn a left-handed glove inside out, it fits…

 

Would you want to be the leader of your country?

 

When you ride an (uncrowded) escalator, do you…

 

After a date, have you ever told someone that you are going to call them, but not done it?

 

How much does the sound of a person’s voice affect their attractiveness to you?

 

You are at a restaurant and there is something very minor wrong with your food. It won’t kill you to eat it or around it. What do do you do?

 

Do you have good posture?

 

Would you honestly answer any question concerning your sexual history that a partner might ask?

 

Reflect back upon yourself of five years past. How much have you changed as a person?

 

Suppose your match confessed that he/she practices a martial art (such as kung fu, boxing, karate, etc), how would you react?

 

If you were to have children, would breast-feeding be something that you would prefer for them?

 

Have you kept something about yourself secret, most of your life, because you were afraid of others rejecting you?

 

You are offered a choice of free training in Martial Arts or Cooking. Which do you take?

 

★ Do you try to eat healthy, or do you just eat whatever you feel like?

 

★ Do you believe that there should be laws to explicitly protect freedom of religion?

 

Do you like coffee?

 

Who most often does your laundry?

 

Would you like to be famous?

 

Have you ever hired a prostitute for yourself?

 

Are you better at dealing with details or the big picture?

 

Are you intimidated by a partner who is more sexually experienced than you?

 

Have you ever intentionally failed at a task you knew you could do well, just so you would never be asked to do it again?

 

After you make a decision, is it usually final?

 

★ Do you live with your parent(s)?

 

Do you think most people tell at least one lie most days?

 

Do you find that extremely intelligent people are intimidating?

 

Do you think it would be interesting to watch a tornado in person?

 

How important is it for you to see movies on opening night?

 

Would you like to fast-forward to a different stage in your life?

 

Are you a member of the Society for Creative Anachronism (SCA)?

 

Do you find freckles attractive?

 

Have you ever fired a real gun? For this question, pellet/BB/Nerf/paintball weapons do not qualify. If so, which most closely describes the deadliest type you have fired?

 

Have you ever considered joining the Peace Corps or another similar “intensive” volunteer program?

 

If you had the opportunity to drink from the fountain of youth and revert to a younger age, would you?

 

Would you like to eventually become the oldest living person?

 

Which is more difficult for you?

 

Would you turn down a potential date because one of your friends thought the person was ugly?

 

You’re shopping for something and have three versions to choose from. Which do you pick?

 

If someone you were interested in told you that they don’t have many friends, would this affect your opinion of them?

 

What kind of movie would you be most likely to play a leading part in?

 

Imagine that you let a friend borrow your car. They call you and say they’ve just been in an accident. Which would be closest to your reaction?

 

What is more important for you? To gain new things or to keep what you already have?

 

★ Should sex education be taught in schools?

 

Do you need to improve yourself?

 

Do you consider something candle-lit (dinner, bed, whatever) to be more romantic, or more tacky?

 

As an adult, have you ever cried just to get what you wanted?

 

Which of these options most closely describes what you’re looking for in your next relationship?

 

★ Do you like traveling?

 

Do you talk to and or have conversations with yourself, either outloud or in your head?

 

Would you like to serve as a juror in a murder trial?

 

When playing games with friends, which is more important to you?

 

Is it difficult for you to fall asleep next to someone new for the first time?

 

Have you ever led someone on romantically just for fun?

 

Would you date someone who is (or was) in a fraternity or sorority?

 

★ Do you like old black-and-white movies?

 

Is it better to live by your own moral standards and allow others to live by theirs, or is it better to press your moral standards upon other people?

 

★ Is owning a distinctive car important to you?

 

Would you consider dating someone who is a full-time student?

 

Do you feel that it is acceptable for people to celebrate festivals that are associated with religions other than their own?

 

Do you borrow books from public libraries?

 

Would you change your ethnicity if you could?

 

When you see a person who is the picture of elegance and beauty, how do you feel?

 

If you gave a friend a copy of your favorite book and found out months later that they still had not even started reading it, would you be upset?

 

Do you feel that your values or priorities vary wildly from those of your peers?

 

Long walks on the beach…

 

How many instruments do you play?

 

Can you tell a lot about a person from their taste in literature?

 

Would you consider going on a television show to get a date or meet a mate?

 

Do you think that if had you been born in another part of the world, your religious beliefs would likely be significantly different?

 

Has anyone ever told you that you are intimidating?

 

Would you ever consider taking a vow of silence for a month?

 

If you were driving and suddenly noticed that the car behind you was a police car, how would you feel?

 

When telling stories, do you like to exaggerate?

 

Which of the following do you most look forward to as you get older?

 

Do you enjoy reading religious texts that do not match your own religious beliefs?

 

Which would you prefer to wear to work?

 

Have you ever started a fist fight in public?

 

Would you ever or have you ever gone out on a “pity” date?!

 

★ Are you more your own biggest fan or your own toughest critic?

 

Would you be able to date someone who stuttered?

 

Have you ever helped to give birth to a human or an animal?

 

When ordering food at a new restaurant, you:

 

★ What was the duration of your longest close-friendship?

 

Of the following, who do you most often go to for advice?

 

★ Do you listen to conservative talk radio?

 

When sick, do you prefer the company of others or to be left alone?

 

Would you consider dating someone who is prone to seizures?

 

Have you ever been to a sex shop?

 

Do you mind getting really dirty working or playing outside?

 

Do you care about the plight of aboriginal people whose land has been taken away from them?

 

Do scars turn you on?

 

Do you have strong intuition?

 

Which one of these comic book archetypes do you most closely identify with?

 

How often do creative thoughts keep you from sleeping?

 

Would you consider dating someone who frequently gambles with large sums of money?

 

You’re having an involved, but friendly, argument with a close friend. Suddenly, you realize you’re wrong for a reason that you are sure no one else has considered. What do you do?

 

★ Is it important to you to have the last word in an argument?

 

Do you believe dreams have hidden meanings to them?

 

If you were telling someone a story that you had told them before, how would you prefer that they react?

 

How spicy do you like your spicy food?

 

★ Is your car important to you?

 

Have you ever had an undeniably supernatural experience?

 

Would you consider dating someone a LOT more sexually experienced than you?

 

Do you find flamboyantly dressed folk attractive?

 

To what extent is your mood affected by the appearance of your surroundings?

 

Other than when going to bed for the night, how often do you fall asleep while watching TV?

 

★ Have you stayed friends with most of your ex-boyfriends/ex-girlfriends?

 

When in charge of others, how do you tend to be?

 

If you were on the phone with the customer service department of a large company and not getting what you want, what sort of tone would you be most likely to take with the representative?

 

Do you believe it is important to stay informed about political issues affecting your nation?

 

When buying new clothing, do you usually consider whether or not it was produced under safe and fair working conditions?

 

Do you ever wear undergarments generally associated with the opposite sex?

 

★ How good are you at fixing things around the house?

 

Are you aware of the existence of any nude photos of yourself on the Internet?

 

★ Imagine you are having sex with a partner, who begins to give you specific instructions on how to best provide satisfaction. Assuming there is no danger, would you follow these instructions?

 

When it comes to coordinating with friends to get together, do you typically inititate contact or wait for friends to contact you?

 

★ Which biological parent should have legal decision-making power in abortion decisions?

 

When hanging out with your friend(s), what’s the ideal group size counting yourself?

 

Do you think that being smart is better than being effective?

 

When it comes to sports, do you usually prefer to play those that are individual- or team-oriented?

 

When something upsets you, what do you become more of?

 

Do you wear different or special underwear when you go out on dates?

 

Which has shaped the course of world events more, love or hate?

 

When you read a book or watch a movie, do you mind knowing the ending in advance?

 

Do you believe that intelligence is a big factor in how long it takes a person to get angry or frustrated with something or someone?

 

Do you ever intentionally seek out reading material that fundamentally disagrees with your beliefs?

 

Do you prefer listening to studio recordings or recordings of live music?

 

★ Would you consider dating someone who was regularly seeing a therapist?

 

How often do you use euphemisms?

 

How do you refer to people in your age group?

 

The only available spot in the entire parking lot is reserved for the handicapped. You’re in a hurry and won’t be very long. Do you park there?

 

If given the opportunity, would you take lessons on how to swing-dance?

 

If your partner asked, would you take ballroom dancing lessons with them?

 

Have you ever served or are you serving in your country’s military?

 

Could you go out with someone you saw as “posh” or “preppy”?

 

Of these four educational subject areas, which is your favorite?

 

Would you donate one of your kidneys (assume you have 2) to save a child you didn’t know?

 

Do you get teary-eyed when when you watch a sad movie?

 

Do you believe that studying literature is beneficial?

 

A little grade 10 science. Ideal Gas Law?

 

Do you think it’s impolite for people who are not customers to use a store’s restroom?

 

★ Do you feel guilty when you masturbate?

 

Your friend is throwing a wine tasting party and you’re supposed to bring a wine to share. Which do you take?

 

Would you date someone from another country?

 

When it comes to activities and hobbies, do you more often participate in those which are traditionally thought of as male or female?

 

Are you respectful of views that you disagree with?

 

Would you ever get on a motorcycle?

 

If your partner is sick, will you still kiss them?

 

Are you absent-minded?

 

Do you know how to ride a bicycle?

 

Do you feel Art has heavily influenced who you are?

 

Do you give in easily when pressured?

 

Do you think that someone’s choice of footwear can really say a lot about them?

 

Can two completely opposite statements both be true?

 

Would you consider dating someone who believes that government should be as small as possible?

 

Do you own a proper tuxedo or evening gown that would be passable for a formal event?

 

Do you provide constructive critism to close friends even when you expect their initial reaction to be negative?

 

Your friends are:

 

Which of these cuisines is most appealing?

 

Imagine that a friend of yours gives up a lucrative career as an executive of a multinational corporation to train as a a chef, claiming it as their true calling. What is your first reaction?

 

Would the world work better by your rules?

 

Do you like to play pranks on strangers?

 

Do you have any hobbies or activities that you enjoy totally alone, which would be ruined if anyone else tried to join in?

 

Can you tell a lot about a person from their handshake?

 

If you could take a pill—with no side effects—to make yourself smarter, faster, or stronger, would you?

 

Do you think sensuality and sexuality are two different things?

 

If a friend were telling a story about the two of you and misquoted you to make the story funnier, would you feel the need to correct the inaccuracy?

 

Do you engage in intellectual foreplay?

 

Do you snore?

 

Would you be interested in someone who is highly involved with their large, extended family?

 

Have you ever told someone that you loved them when you didn’t?

 

Do you prefer that people take their shoes off when coming into your home?

 

What should be done with your body after you die?

 

Which of these is your most frequent partner in sexual fantasies?

 

Does music have a big influence on your life?

 

Would you date someone with a noticable physical disability?

 

★ Do you hunt animals for sport?

 

What’s most important to you?

 

have you ever tried singing karaoke in public?

 

Do you consider yourself a perfectionist?

 

★ Would you date someone whose family has an extensive history of divorce?

 

Which is your favorite sort of place to see a musical performance?

 

Would you consider yourself child like (not to be confused with childish), that is having an aura of innocence, a playful attitude, and an expression/feeling of awe at new things.

 

Are you patient?

 

With whom would you rather enjoy a good movie?

 

Have you ever had a period of your adult life when you were mostly just slacking?

 

Which of the following most closely describes your demeanor in high stress situations?

 

When it comes to outward expressions of emotion, would you say that you do this more or less than the average person?

 

Would you shave something you usually don’t because your partner asked you to?

 

★ Is there any aspect of your sexuality that you would be too embarrassed to ever share with a match?

 

★ Do you think safe sex should be taught in schools?

 

Have you ever had a sexual relationship with someone you met online?

 

Have you ever gone mountain climbing?

 

Is it possible for a person to fall in love with the first person they ever date, get married, and live happily ever after, even though they never dated anyone else much less “played the field”?

 

How many porn stars can you name off the top of your head?

 

Do you loathe or tremendously dislike most of the people you encounter?

 

Have you ever taken a shower with a partner?

 

★ If you had to choose only one, how would you prefer to meet potential partners?

 

You climb into a large hot tub at your local gym and it is only then that you notice the couple opposite you are making out. Do you stay?

 

Is it more difficult to look into someone’s eyes when you are telling them how you feel or when they are telling you how they feel?

 

How often in conversation are you likely to use an exact quote from a movie, play, or TV show?

 

If you accidently hit a parked car while driving, would you leave a note with your contact information?

 

★ Would you rather:

 

If you were at a concert, would you sing along with the band if you knew the lyrics?

 

Do you feel that technology has lead to people being more aware or less aware of the natural world around them?

 

Do you have any deep dark fantasies that you would not share with anyone, even a trusted partner?

 

Which is more desirable in a mate? Someone who:

 

Do you think extraterrestrials are watching us?

 

Which are you prouder of?

 

Would you consider dating someone who has extensive facial tattoos?

 

★ Would you be jealous if your partner thought a fictional character was really hot?

 

Do you usually vote in presidential (or applicable) elections?

 

Which of the following would you consider most important when in comes to enjoying art?

 

The person you consider your best friend is:

 

Do you believe most of your problems relate to an event that happened when you were a child?

 

Have you ever gone on a rampant sex spree while depressed, shortly after losing a love?

 

Which would you appreciate more, being complimented on your appearance or on your intelligence?

 

Do you ever feel the need to pick at other people’s blemishes?

 

★ Do you masturbate?

 

Would you date someone from another continent?

 

If a child were to ask you a question that you do not know the answer to, how might you respond?

 

Do you ever find yourself avoiding doing things just because they are popular?

 

Which is more valuable to you, time or money?

 

How obsessive/compulsive are you?

 

Do you enjoy fantasy books or movies? (e.g. The Lord of the Rings)

 

Do you believe that the desire to perform good deeds is a part of human nature?

 

Do you tend to think of people as belonging to certain categories, such as ‘Jocks’, ‘Nerds’, ‘Geeks’, etc?

 

You see a yellow light and aren’t sure whether or not you can pass it before it turns red. What do you do?

 

★ Would it bother you if your significant other wanted their body donated to science when they die?

 

Are you generally nice to people who really annoy you?

 

Do you brush your tongue?

 

Do you ever ignore/avoid/dismiss somebody because you think they are simply too good-looking to be interested in you?

 

Imagine that you have finally met the “perfect match” in person, but there was no immediate romantic spark. Would you pursue the relationship?

 

Can you be trusted with a long-term project and no one watching you?

 

Do you prefer to acquire generic or name brand groceries?

 

Are military uniforms a turn on?

 

Would you pay a premium to buy something American-made?

 

Do you think there is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?

 

Do you ever get jealous when one or more of your friends are in a relationship and you aren’t?

 

Would it bother you to live in a place where you cannot see the stars at night?

 

Do you shop in second-hand stores for clothing?

 

Do you often have strong opinions about the government?

 

Professional athletes often demand large salaries, often one hundred or more times that of an average person. Do you think that such large salaries are appropriate?

 

When you discover there is something you do not like about yourself, what do you do?

 

Would you date someone who had an OCD (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder), such as hair pulling, excessive counting, excessive hand washing, etc.

 

Which is more appealing to you?

 

Are you ashamed of any of your sexual desires?

 

Would you consider dating someone who had a previous relationship with a close relative of yours?

 

Have you ever told someone you were dating that you hated them?

 

Do you like jazz?

 

You answer the phone and it’s somebody trying to sell you something. What are you more likely to do?

 

Do you judge people solely by their musical preferences?

 

Have you ever asked a stranger if you could have a cigarette?

 

One of your friends flirts with your ex, what do you feel?

 

Do you practice any methods of divination?

 

Would you consider dating someone whose dietary choices (e.g., meat, vegetables, junk food, etc.) differ drastically from your own?

 

Do wild places such as mountains, rivers and forests call out to you?

 

If you could be seven years old again for one whole day, would you want to?

 

Which of the following senses do you find sexiest?

 

Do you think it’s possible to get a good job without going to college?

 

Is it a breach of etiquette to pet a stranger’s dog without permission?

 

If you had to name as many famous scientists as you could remember, and as many famous writers as you could remember, which list would be longer?

 

Do you tend to over analyze things your partner might say?

 

If you were about to kiss someone you recently started dating and discovered that they had putridly foul breath, would you tell them about their problem?

 

★ Would you consider a relationship with someone who was sterile?

 

Are you capable of being faithful even if your lover is away from home for long periods of time?

 

Which of the following best facilitates concentration for you?

 

Is leaving your mark on the world important to you?

 

Does language fascinate you (how different languages are related, the development of language over time, dialects, etc.)?

 

Do you care whether or not humanity survives beyond your own lifetime?

 

Would you date someone on an odd work or school schedule (e.g., midnight shift, rotating shift, etc.)?

 

When planning activities with your partner do you generally like to take the lead?

 

★ How much do you procrastinate?

 

Have you ever thrown away something that belonged to someone else because you thought they didn’t need it?

 

Would you consider dating someone who regularly works a night shift and sleeps during daylight hours?

 

When talking to somebody, do you touch them a lot?

 

If you were on a date with a photographer and they pointed their camera at you, what would be your response?

 

Is it okay for a married person to play around with someone with the permission of their spouse?

 

Does it typically take you a little while to get to know people, before you become yourself around them?

 

What’s more important in a relationship, disliking similar things or liking similar things?

 

Could you easily select 5 or fewer friends to be your only friends for the rest of your life?

 

★ Which is more important to the human race:

 

Would you rather live in a country where your religion was the official religion, or in a country where all religions were treated the same?

 

Do you flirt with people you find attractive, even if you know it can’t lead anywhere?

 

If you were staying in a hotel with maid service, what condition would you leave the room in?

 

If you found someone’s wallet in a public restroom, which is closest to what you would do?

 

Are you prone to fits of jealousy without just cause?

 

Would you go out with a person who has a medical disorder that’s not life threatening, but has to be thought of constantly? (e.g. Diabetes, Vision, etc.)

 

Would you ever picket a business that you do not approve of?

 

Is someone who speaks several languages fluently more attractive to you than someone who does not?

 

Does your happiness in life stem primarily from your career or chosen profession?

 

Would it bother you to see someone eating in a public place where No Eating or Drinking signs are clearly posted?

 

How would not eating all of the food on their plate affect your opinion of someone?

 

Have you ever been married?

 

Would you consider dating someone who has severe food allergies and cannot eat out in restaurants?

 

Which would you prefer?

 

★ Do you consider the act of leaving cigarette butts on the ground to be littering?

 

Which of the following would you put more effort into your appearance for?

 

Are you afraid of death?

 

Do you feel the urge to correct people who say stupid things?

 

Do you chew gum?

 

Would you date someone who worked a minimum wage job?

 

How often do you read your horoscope?

 

Do you ever dream of running away from your current life and starting over, in a new place where no one knows you?

 

Do you enjoy watching B movies or so-called “cult classics”?

 

Have you ever broken up with someone for no reason other than it just didn’t “feel right”?

 

★ Imagine your partner has suggested trying something new for dinner. Which of the following choices sounds most appealing?

 

Would you consider starting a relationship with someone who seems very promising even if they have a life-threatening illness?

 

Do you get annoyed if someone uses a word or phrase incorrectly, even if you still understand the speaker’s meaning?

 

Would you prefer to date someone who is open-minded and disagrees with you often; or someone who is close-minded but rarely disagrees with you?

 

If you found a nice watch in the back of a taxi, would you keep it?

 

Tight clothing on men is:

 

Would you consider dating a law enforcement officer?

 

After ending a serious relationship, what do you do with any gifts/mementos your now-ex gave you?

 

Have you ever failed a charisma check?

 

Your date suggests attending a party that involves everyone making music together, either by playing instruments or singing. Would you like to go?

 

Would you find it annoying if a friend told you they were going to be busy celebrating their seven month anniversary?

 

Would you or have you ever been best/good friends with someone you used to date?

 

Do you play the lottery?

 

If you were going away for two weeks, how far in advance would you start packing?

 

You’re in a budding relationship. Who would you want your significant other to meet first, your friends or your parents?

 

Are you afraid of dying alone?

 

When you’re looking for entertainment, what usually draws you the most?

 

Do you have a favorite sports team that you really like to follow?

 

Did America really put a man on the moon?

 

While watching a movie at home, I prefer the lights in the room to be:

 

Could you date a person who had a large imperfection (ex: mole, birthmark, etc.)?

 

Imagine one night you go out alone to get some food. You bump into your ex and their new partner. They invite you to join them for dinner. Would you accept?

 

Would you be excited to ride the world’s tallest and fastest roller coaster?

 

★ You’ve been asked to make something that will be seen or otherwise experienced by millions of people. If you had to choose one, which of the following qualities would you most strive for?

 

Imagine you accidentally drop five dollars in a public restroom toilet. The toilet shows no obvious signs of filth or disease. Which of the following would you do?

 

Should the study of philosophy be required in school?

 

What do you think is the best way to for the government to balance the budget?

 

Do you work to live or live to work?

 

Are you quick to trust until proven wrong or more slow to trust until worth is proven?

 

Do you monitor your diet?

 

If you were to die tomorrow, would you be satisfied with the outcome of your life?

 

Is it important to pay ongoing respect to family and friends who have died (for example, visiting burial places or displaying urns)?

 

Do you like small rodents?

 

★ Riddle me this, my // fellow OkCupider: // haiku. What say you?

 

Everything changes. This is:

 

Do you think your partner is with you to serve you with cooking and cleaning up after you?

 

Have you ever, when you are alone, secretly tried to move stuff with your mind?

 

Do you consider telling someone, “I love you,” for the first to be a momentous event?

 

If you dropped a piece of solid food on the floor, might you pick it up and eat it?

 

★ Do you think it is important to know exactly what is in the food you eat?

 

Do you ever eat in bed?

 

Do you think that as people become more sexually experienced they necessarily become better lovers?

 

How often do you feel the need to add to your wardrobe?

 

Would you prefer to live where there is a variety of weather or where you could experience your favorite kind of weather almost all the time?

 

Would you consider trying food without being told what it is?

 

Do you think someone’s imperfections generally make them more attractive?

 

Is it a turn on for you to be with someone mysterious?

 

If the technology to freeze your age and not get any older was available, but the trade off was that you had to act that way forever, which age range would you stop at?

 

Would you ever consider setting up someone you’re dating, in order to test their fidelity?

 

Do you believe in the accuracy of horoscopes?

 

When dating new people, is there a certain prior partner who you inevitably compare them to?

 

Could you date someone who was really short?

 

Would you consider moving to a place far from where you currently reside?

 

“Four score and seven years ago” refers to how many years ago?

 

Which would you rather have more of?

 

If you suspected that your partner was stealing from you or your house, would it be crazy or reasonable to set up a trap for them?

 

What do you think your government would do if they really knew what went on inside your head?

 

Suppose you were asked to solve a critical world problem. Would you take a practical approach that’s easy to implement or an idealistic approach that’s a challenge?

 

Would you ever date an attractive, talented, homeless person?

 

When you are cooking, do you closely follow recipes or do you operate more on intuition?

 

When you are alone, how often do your own actions make you laugh?

 

When would you prefer to spend time with a significant other?

 

Would you consider having a relationship with someone whose life is under continuous public scrutiny, to the point where you would have no reasonable expectation of going out in public without the press on your trail?

 

If you were given the opportunity to to wake up tomorrow morning as your 6 or 7 year old self, having all the knowledge you have now, would you?

 

Have you ever considered suicide?

 

Your grandmother gives you something really hideous and ceramic for your birthday. She is going to expect to see it when she comes over. What do you do?

 

★ What is your opinion on freckles?

 

Have you ever called in sick just to have a day to yourself?

 

If someone you like ignored you, how would that affect how much you like them?

 

How often do you find yourself lost in thought in public places, unaware of your surroundings or the passage of time?

 

Would you rather be 10 minutes late, or an hour early?

 

If you were romantically interested in a friend of your best friend, would you go for it?

 

Do you consider yourself sexually open minded?

 

You are sleeping with your significant other and it is very cold in the room, what do you do?

 

Do you read the dedications and introductions when you’re reading a book?

 

Could you date someone with a learning disability of any kind?

 

Do you eat food with your fingers even if it’s messy or something many/most other people you know use silverware for?

 

Would you rather work for your money or have it given to you?

 

How often do you correct your friends when they make grammatical mistakes in casual conversation?

 

Are you bitter?

 

For a million dollars, would you end any relationship, no matter how good it was?

 

Which is better: failing with style, or succeeding dully?

 

Do you enjoy political satire?

 

Imagine you are at a party at friend’s house. You drop a piece of food on the floor. From where you are standing, the floor and the food both look clean. Which would you most likely do?

 

If during the course of your first few dates you noticed your date taking prescription medications, would you inquire about them?

 

Do you often find yourself doing things just to say you did them?

 

What is the approximate circumference of planet Earth at the equator?

 

★ Would you rather find “the one” the first time you date someone, or after many attempts?

 

Do you regularly go out partying on weeknights?

 

If you had to live through an entire year of either darkness or daylight, which would you chose?

 

After a sexual encounter, would you ever tell your partner that they were “the best you’d ever had” if it was not true?

 

If your partner wanted to cut their hair way shorter than you like it, what would you do?

 

When people seek advice from you, what do they usually get?

 

★ Would you consider dating a person who chews tobacco?

 

Over time, have you become more or less picky about potential partners?

 

Would you ever tease someone you are interested in as a way to show affection?

 

Would you travel around a third world country, alone?

 

Have you ever attended a political demonstration or convention?

 

As a personality, are you more passive or more active?

 

When all is said and done, which would you rather be?

 

Have you ever cut off contact with someone after seeing their pic?

 

Are you currently on the path towards the job you want in ten years?

 

If you get lost without a map while traveling in a new place for the first time, would you:

 

Would you still work if you won the lottery?

 

★ Do you think Christians are persecuted in the U.S.?

 

Would you date someone that you’d had a one night stand with?

 

If someone described themselves as ‘just an average guy/gal’, how would this most likely affect your opinion of them?

 

How often do you interrupt people?

 

How often do you find yourself criticizing movies, music, or other forms of artistic expression as “pretentious” or”highbrow” and use that as a reason to dismiss them?

 

How was your childhood?

 

If you worked as a waiter/waitress, would you flirt with customers just to make more tips?

 

What portion of your life, not including sleep, is spent doing things that you do not like to do?

 

When would you prefer to settle a disagreement?

 

Do you feel out of place in society or time?

 

Are tears arousing?

 

How do you like your social plans?

 

Do you listen to music when you are trying to fall asleep?

 

Would you consider dating someone who, while serving in the military, has killed an enemy in direct armed combat?

 

Can two people who are very different in terms of how they show affection be right for each other?

 

Where would you prefer to work?

 

Have you ever thrown an object in anger during an argument?

 

Would you consider dating someone who acquires most of their food from garbage dumpsters?

 

Would you consider having a relationship with someone whose profession requires them to be regularly ‘on call’? Imagine that their job would require them to leave at random times with little notice.

 

If you had to choose, would you rather spend a year totally isolated from others or a year without ever being alone?

 

How many people do you know who you could share anything with, no matter how private?

 

What would you choose: having dessert or having an alcoholic beverage?

 

Which describes you better?

 

The enemy of my enemy is my friend.

 

How often is your behavior motivated by the need to be different?

 

Do you think that personal cars should be banned from all major metropolitan areas?

 

Would the idea of a quiet evening sitting together reading books ever appeal to you?

 

If given the opportunity, would you swim with Sharks?

 

Do you subscribe to polytheistic beliefs?

 

Do you like wearing formal attire?

 

Are you a fan of professional wrestling?

 

If you came across a word you didn’t know while reading, would you stop to look up its definition?

 

Would you like to live abroad for a long period of time (2+ years)?

 

Your significant other’s family speaks a different language, and will accept you more easily if you speak it. Do you:

 

Do you like the idea of living alone?

 

“It’s better to burn out than to fade away!” Do you agree?

 

★ For people who are in exclusive relationships, is masturbation a form of infidelity?

 

Which of the following factors most in defining your eating habits?

 

Would you consider dating someone who has a tattoo with an ex’s name?

 

Do you think any person is truly selfless?

 

Which do you regret more?

 

Do you feel a need to own the most up-to-date electronic gadgets?

 

Is the world weird enough for you?

 

★ Would you date a recovering (non-drinking) alcoholic?

 

Did you ever have a “goth” phase?

 

Would you let your kids watch as much t.v. as they wanted, as long as they said their homework was done?

 

Some things are free. Some things are expensive. Some things are simply great deals. Which of these do you generally value the most?

 

People who are really bad at dancing should:

 

If a potential partner has children living in their home, would it be important for you to meet them before you commited yourself to a relationship?

 

Would you be afraid if you were walking alone on a city sidewalk after dark?

 

Are you too embarrassed to sing along to the radio in the car when there’s someone with you?

 

★ Do you think that masturbation is an acceptable practice?

 

Would you prefer a short and exciting life or a long and boring one?

 

In general, are you a competitive person?

 

Are you smarter than most people?

 

Which do you prefer?

 

Which do you cause more of?

 

How much would you dress up for a first date with someone you met on OkCupid?

 

When trying to express something difficult or painful, which style of communication do you feel most comfortable and natural using?

 

What would be your honest reaction if a loved one made a charitable donation in your name instead of buying you a gift at the holidays?

 

★ Honestly, which do you do more of?

 

Has the human race done more to create or to destroy beauty in the world?

 

Have you ever given up your bus, subway, or train seat for a stranger who seemed to need it more?

 

Do you think the basic instinct to survive and reproduce fundamentally drives every decision a person makes?

 

Would you date a nudist?

 

Do you usually wear cologne or perfume?

 

Do you enjoy riding roller coasters?

 

Do you think you are still evolving or are you pretty much the way you are always going to be?

 

How often do you find yourself becoming annoyed because other people just don’t seem to understand the obvious?

 

Do you enjoy gossip?

 

To what extent do you believe that your purpose in life is to change the world for the better?

 

Could you be happy if your significant other was an extremely restless sleeper?

 

Would you feel comfortable going away on a vacation by yourself?

 

What is your opinion of the practice of meditation?

 

Does the way people dress affect how you treat them?

 

Is VERY short hair on a woman necessarily unattractive?

 

Do you think tanned skin is attractive?

 

If money were not an issue, would you have major cosmetic surgery on any part of your face or body?

 

If a partner had a crush on a celebrity, would that bother you?

 

Do you enjoy being very close to extreme weather?

 

Do you believe people can fundamentally change their personalities?

 

Are you ultimately responsible for your own happiness?

 

Which of the following sounds most appealing for your next birthday?

 

If you were about to die, what would you want to do with your money?

 

Which is your favorite weather?

 

★ Do you think the world is overpopulated?

 

Do you play or have you ever played a Massive Multiplayer Online Role Playing Game?

 

Do you think it is possible to start over, leaving everything behind and never looking back?

 

A “shooting star” is a star that…

 

Are you a better conversationalist or listener?

 

Do you like punk rock?

 

Have you ever seriously questioned your sexuality and whether it was different from what you first assumed?

 

Does someone’s appearance lose appeal to you if you find out it’s fake? (ie, implants, dyed hair, fake facial piercings)

 

Do smart people necessarily have greater potential to change the world?

 

Would you answer the phone if you were on the toilet? Assume this is a call you’d answer elsewhere.

 

Would you allow either a partner’s pet cat or pet dog to share food off the same plate as you? Assume the pet would be offered the first bite straight off the plate.

 

If all of the professional sports leagues in the world ceased to exist, would you be upset?

 

Which is closer to perfection?

 

Would you consider dating a person who has the same first name as you?

 

Do you like to listen to music while having sex?

 

Would you consider dating someone who chooses not to vote as an act of political protest?

 

Would you feel uncomfortable if a pet saw you masturbating?

 

Do you freak out when you get a little upset? (i.e. scream, yell and cry)

 

Would you consider dating someone who generally does not eat vegetables?

 

Do you think that the psychological differences between human males and females are better explained by nature or nurture?

 

Think about the famous person you admire most. He or she is:

 

Would it bother you if a platonic friend touched you casually during a conversation?

 

Would you ever correct your partner for seriously misusing or mispronouncing a word?

 

When it comes to relationship activities, I usually prefer:

 

Do you find it difficult to trust a romantic partner completely?

 

Do you enjoy conversation during breakfast?

 

How many hours of television do you watch per week?

 

Do you believe that your vote makes a difference?

 

If you could choose to live forever, would you?

 

Have you ever posed as a nude model while someone sketched/painted/photographed you?

 

Do you like the idea of dating someone who lives full time in a motor home and has no permanent address?

 

What percent of the population is NOT physically attractive enough for your taste?

 

Are you modest?

 

On average, how many fast food meals do you eat in a week.

 

Do you feel that animals are more important than humans?

 

★ If allowed only one of the following options, how would you choose to define your sex life?

 

★ Is working for a non-profit organisation after you graduate a waste of a good university education?

 

Does your culture, ethnicity, or race play a large role in your identity?

 

Would you consider buying a genetically engineered pet?

 

Are you attracted to things connected to sadness?

 

Would you consider trying a dish made from dog meat?

 

How in tune are you with your surroundings?

 

Would you consider dating someone who has an obsessive ex they are trying to get away from?

 

Do you like to be the center of attention?

 

Do you believe that most police officers abide by the same laws they enforce?

 

Would you consider dating an animal rights activist?

 

How much do you like to be tickled during sex?

 

Which is more deserving of respect: to never start a bad habit, or to have started a bad habit and then successfully ended it?

 

Would you ever consider marrying someone who you are not in love with?

 

Would you be interested in spending a set amount of time, say one day, as a member of the opposite sex?

 

What do you think of make-up?

 

Do you like to dance?

 

Does it bother you when someone frequently uses extraneous speech (e.g., uhh, umm, like, you know, etc.) in conversation with you?

 

Are you the person you want to be?

 

Would you consider dating someone who was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome?

 

When a dog licks your face, what is your reaction?

 

In relationships, would you try to encourage your partners to develop themselves to their full potential even where it would make them more independent of you?

 

Would you date someone who habitually needs to pop their back/neck?

 

Would you date someone you weren’t crazy about if they took you on cool dates?

 

Is astrological sign at all important in a match?

 

Which do you tend to be more of?

 

Which is more important to you, reality or fantasy?

 

If you saw someone being mugged in the street, would you step in and try to help?

 

In regards to people who meet your sexual preferences, is there a difference between finding them sexy and wanting to have sex with them?

 

Which is more important: a person’s opinion or how they arrived at their opinion?

 

How often do you watch automobile racing?

 

Would you consider being part of a committed polyamorous relationship (i.e., three or more people but no sex outside the group)?

 

Is it inappropriate for a high school teacher to date a former student who just graduated?

 

Would you consider dating someone with autism?

 

Would you rather visit a country where everyone speaks your language, or go somewhere where you can’t understand anyone?

 

Do you ever lie to yourself?

 

If you really liked someone, would you make an effort to clean up before they saw your place for the first time?

 

Which word describes you better?

 

Would you wear your partner’s underclothing if they wanted you to?

 

Trying anything at least once is..

 

People are inherently…

 

When it comes to your pubic hair, do you make a regular effort to maintain its appearance (or lack thereof)?

 

Do you try to flirt with strangers in public places?

 

Are you a genius?

 

How do you usually feel toward authority figures?

 

Are you sexually fertile?

 

Imagine that one of your friends likes to sing but cannot carry a tune to save their life. Which of the following would you most likely do?

 

Given that celebrities are often role models to kids, do you think they have a moral obligation to act with that in mind?

 

Would you be willing to date someone with Attention Deficit Disorder?

 

What was the duration of your longest romantic relationship?

 

★ Would you ever consider ending a relationship because a parent, family member, or close friend didn’t approve of your partner in terms of attractiveness, race, nationality, gender, age, or other factors beyond their control?

 

Have you ever felt so strongly about a social issue or cause that you have participated in a public demonstration?

 

Do you believe people, as a whole, are capable of ruling themselves, or is government of some kind needed?

 

Do you think a straight man and a straight woman can truly just be friends?

 

★ Do you like being in a car with someone else who’s driving extremely fast?

 

If you had to pick one of the following locations for a first date, which would be most appealing?

 

Do you think that shared experiences involving nonsexual things that you enjoy can be as intimate as having sex?

 

★ When you see someone litter, do you:

 

How often do you smoke cigars?

 

You’re given one chance to travel through time. How do you use it?

 

Over the course of your life, how often have the decisions you made resulted in increased happiness for yourself and those around you?

 

Would you want to be immortal if you could?

 

Do you feel comfortable being touched by someone you just met?

 

Do you think that someone who cheats when playing games can be trusted in a relationship?

 

Would you be comfortable marrying a bisexual person?

 

Do you use racial slurs when you are around friends or family whom you trust?

 

Is it cool for men to wear earrings?

 

Which is worse: frank narcissism or false modesty?

 

How important is it for you to have the same taste in movies or television programs as your partner?

 

Would you read a book just for fun?

 

★ You are seeing someone new and are taking them to meet your friends for the first time. Is it more important to you that:

 

Are you fond of late night walks to no place in particular?

 

Do you find intelligence sexier than looks?

 

Would you ever donate your sperm or eggs?

 

In the line Wherefore art thou Romeo?, what does wherefore mean?

 

If you were forced to betray one of the following, which one would you choose?

 

In your opinion, is shock value a valid form of artistic expression?

 

What causes Earth’s seasons?

 

When fooling around with someone, do you sometimes have sexual fantasies about other people?

 

How do you generally feel about people who tend to hug others whom they’ve just met?

 

When judging someone’s actions, you usually base your judgement on:

 

Do you think etiquette and table manner (fork left, knife right, etc.) still have value in modern society?

 

Men/women who are tall and lanky:

 

Do you feel comfortable in the passenger seat when someone else is driving?

 

Once you have grown to love somebody, is it possible to stop loving them?

 

What do you feel is the hardest part of a romantic relationship?

 

Would you find it a turn on or a turn off if the person you are dating could sing very well?

 

Would you consider dating someone twenty years older than you if they were really interesting and looked really good?

 

Do you think really abstract art—like just splattered paint—can be truly brilliant?

 

Do you avoid exposure to sunlight?

 

Other than as an end to suffering, have you ever truly hoped that another person would die?

 

Men who wax their chests are…

 

Would you consider dating a person who is a single parent of a special needs child?

 

Would you consider dating someone who has been divorced more than once?

 

Would you consider dating someone who suffers from some sort of sexual dysfunction, but who still enjoys other sorts of sexual activity using hands/mouth/whatever?

 

Would you consider dating someone who wears dentures?

 

Do you need to know everything about someone’s past?

 

If you could have one of the following to take with you on a deserted island and you had to live there for five years, which would you take?

 

Would you risk your life to save a dying animal?

 

do you like punk rock

 

Would you date someone who doesn’t drink alcohol?

 

★ Can you sleep in the same room as someone who snores?

 

Would you consider having a serious relationship with someone who works in job that is so secret that they will never be allowed to discuss even the smallest details of it with you?

 

Would you rather be indoors or outdoors?

 

Which best describes the ideal indoor temperature for you?

 

When you fall in love with someone, do you go ahead and tell them, or do you wait for them to say they love you first?

 

★ Do you feel that voting in all elections should be required by law?

 

Suppose that all traces of organized religion were instantly wiped from human knowledge. What would happen afterwards?

 

★ Let’s say there are two people in a room with you; one is loud, flirty and attention getting, the other is shy and quiet. Which one are you attracted to more?

 

Do you own a gun?

 

How do you feel about baseball?

 

Beauty is power. Power corrupts people. Therefore, beautiful people are corrupt.

 

★ Which comes first, family or friends?

 

Do you think the government should limit big chain stores to give small businesses a chance?

 

Do you tend toward resolving conflicts through confrontation or avoidance?

 

In a conversation someone says a word you don’t understand. What do you do?

 

Would you consider dating someone who adamantly believes that children should not be educated in traditional school settings?

 

I would rather vote for a candidate whose policies significantly:

 

If it were legal to do so, would you ever consider paying for sex?

 

Do you chew with your mouth open?

 

Would you rather live forever or die happy?

 

Should parents reward children with money for getting good grades?

 

Would you be able to date someone that was unwilling to share their family history with you?

 

Can you run a mile without stopping?

 

Do you enjoy using refrigerated items or ice cubes on your partner during sex?

 

Which is more important to you in choosing a place to live?

 

Should laws that address nudity above the waist apply equally to males and females?

 

Would you be more tolerant of personality flaws in a partner who is more physically attractive?

 

Karaoke?

 

Should people be allowed to sell their body parts, organs, and tissues for profit?

 

What do you think of reality television?

 

How long does it usually take for you to decide whether or not you like a new acquaintance?

 

If you suffered minor injuries in a car accident, would you exaggerate the damage if you knew it could make you a LOT of money from an insurance company?

 

Do you think that western medicine is better than alternative medicine (such as chiropractic, massage, naturopathy, herbology)?

 

★ Have you ever attempted to convert another to your own religious beliefs?

 

Are you afraid of falling madly in love?

 

How often do you get upset during face-to-face conversations involving at least two other people?

 

★ Do you say grace before meals?

 

Have you ever sniffed your clothes to decide if you will wear them or not?

 

Would you ever consider hiring a detective to find out if someone is cheating on you?

 

In long-term relationship, if you could have things go 100% your way in any one of the following areas, which area would you choose?

 

You come home and discover that somebody’s broken into your house, and they’re still inside. You…

 

On the job, which of these is most important to you:

 

Do you think most human instincts can be attributed to evolution?

 

★ Fast food is:

 

How well do you handle criticism?

 

How easily are you offended?

 

Do you evaluate the people you see out in public for suitability as potential partners, based on their attractiveness?

 

Would you make a fool out of yourself in public if it meant you were making your partner laugh?

 

★ In general, people who use long, multisyllablic words when short, simple ones would do just as well are more …

 

Do you like large dogs?

 

How important is it to you that your abdominal muscles be a visible six-pack, eight-pack, or some higher level of sculpting?

 

Is there a difference between telling the truth and not lying?

 

★ If you could erase any pain from your past and substitute those moments with happiness, would you?

 

You find a mess left by someone you live with. You’d be likely to clean it up…

 

Would you consider incorporating elements of computer or robotic technology into your body for purposes of augmentation?

 

Do you think it is necessary for a man to have (or have had) a good relationship with his father in order to be a good father?

 

★ Would you enjoy a 10 mile run with your partner?

 

A friend has become homeless. Would you let them stay with you until they are back on their feet?

 

Do you have an addictive personality?

 

Do you think politics have an impact on your everyday life?

 

★ Do you recycle?

 

★ Do you feel that a major reduction of the human population is necessary for the long-term survival of the Earth?

 

If you had to choose one of the following for the remainder of your life, which would you choose with respect to sports?

 

Communism, in concept:

 

Do you feel you have a purpose or calling in life?

 

A first date has gone relatively well so far. You discover that your date has absolutely no awareness of any significant current affairs from the last month. How might this make you feel?

 

When it comes to getting what one deserves, which do you see as the bigger problem?

 

★ Are you married, engaged to be married, or in a relationship that you believe will lead to marriage?

 

★ When it comes to art, do you prefer works that are abstract or representational?

 

Are you a snob about some things?

 

Is anything in life more important than your own self-interest?

 

Do you believe you can learn to love someone?

 

★ Do you ever drink alcohol in order to lower your inhibitions with the opposite sex?

 

Would you pretend to share an interest with someone you really liked as a way to gain favour with them?

 

Could you date someone that has put off a relationship with someone else, with the intent of picking it up again later?

 

★ How wise do you think you are at this stage?

 

You have a major crush on a good friend’s significant other. This friend is having trouble in the relationship and asks you for advice, do you:

 

★ Do you ever get inspired to make something creative for no reason in particular?

 

Imagine on your birthday you receive three books. One is a religious text. One is a scientific text. One is a novel. Which do you think you would enjoy the most?

 

Would you want to be there to take care of an ill partner?

 

★ Do you think most people are too politically correct or too politically incorrect?

 

If a date were to give you a gift, which would you rather receive?

 

★ Do you think the media, in general, is too conservative, too liberal, or actually pretty impartial?

 

Would you rather have a great friend you could share everything with or a great lover you can’t really talk to?

 

★ Do you have a strong sense of self?

 

Historically, have you gone through periods of “forgetting about your friends” as you have become involved in romantic relationships?

 

If you saw someone shoplifting, would you turn them in?

 

Which would you rather win?

 

Is it ok for men to be “househusbands”?

 

Would you do a striptease for your mate?

 

Do you kiss on the first date?

 

Do you like the taste of blood?

 

Do you generally wash your hands before preparing food?

 

Would you be willing to use deadly force to prevent an unwarranted search of your home by government officials?

 

How would you feel if a new dating partner believed that bizarre events are more likely to occur during a full moon?

 

How energetic are you?

 

Do you believe the state of Earth’s climate is your personal responsibility?

 

Should young children be taught the proper words for their body parts instead of learning the kid-friendly versions?

 

Would you consider becoming involved in a serious relationship with someone who is divorced?

 

Do you think it is a good idea for a single person to try to create or adopt a child and raise it on his or her own?

 

You go to watch a movie at the cinema with a date. About half way through he/she becomes obviously bored with it, but you are really enjoying it and want to see the ending. What do you do?

 

Do you think that wealthy nations have a responsibility to assist developing nations?

 

Would it bother you if your partner had a hobby where they would occasionally seclude themselves for hours at a time?

 

A person you’re interested in attempts to cook a romantic meal for you. After tasting a bit of it, you notice it hasn’t been cooked completely. What do you do?

 

It is more worthwhile and satisfying to:

 

Do you think people who believe in some type of existence after death are more ethical than those who do not?

 

Would you ever consider an open marriage? That means you can sleep with other people.

 

Do you sleep with the television on?

 

Do you enjoy Renaissance Faires or other Medieval re-enactment events?

 

Do you like loud concerts?

 

Have you made any wishes or cast any spells lately?

 

Are you fascinated with all things dark and macabre?

 

What’s more important, happiness or safety in relationships?

 

Do you think the family of a murder victim should have any say in what punishment is given to the murderer?

 

Should people seeking to adopt children be required by law to pass a parenting course prior to being allowed to adopt?

 

Would you consider a long term relationship with the parent of a multiracial child who would clearly not be seen as your biological offspring?

 

Would you consider dating a person who rescues stray animals from the streets and brings them home?

 

It’s Friday night and you’re with a friend. Pick one:

 

If you asked for time off of work to see your favorite band and it wasn’t granted, would you skip work to see the show anyway?

 

★ Wearing your nation’s flag on your clothing (t-shirt, lapel pin, on your backpack ect.) is:

 

Hippies?

 

Do you prefer to sleep with the lights on or off?

 

Would you consent to carry a device that tracked your location in real time so that your significant other could locate your position any time they wanted?

 

Have you experienced mental illness?

 

★ Should freedom of speech allow the expression of all viewpoints, even extreme and widely-offensive ones?

 

Imagine a law is passed that makes one of your favorite activities illegal. Assuming you believe the activity to be harmless, would you continue pursuing it if there exists a high probability of eventually being caught?

 

What do you think about people who watch movies purely for the point of making fun of them?

 

Which are you closer to being?

 

Would you date a comic book geek?

 

★ Do you ever feel that your behavior is inconsistent with your own notion of right and wrong?

 

Would you be comfortable having a partner whose job requires them to be physically close to very attractive people?

 

Would you adopt a baby from another country ?

 

Would you consider dating someone who had spent considerable time in a mental health facility? (i.e. mental hospital/institution.)

 

★ Roughly how many books have you read in the past year?

 

★ Which is more appealing?

 

★ Would you consider a serious relationship with someone who couldn’t have children?

 

In a certain light, couldn’t being homeless be exciting?

 

How soon would you meet your significant other’s parents?

 

Monty Python fans who recite lines back at the TV screen. Annoying or not?

 

How important is it to you that other people dress in a manner consistent with their age?

 

How often do you visit the dentist to have your teeth (or tooth) cleaned?

 

If a close friend asks you to come out to a club or bar that does not fit with your own sexual preferences, would you go along?

 

Would you be happy raising the kids while your spouse worked?

 

★ When you have no pressing obligations, at what time do you prefer to get up in the morning?

 

If your partner shared their darkest secret with you and you eventually break up, would you tell other people this secret?

 

How shy would you say you are?

 

Do you go to the tanner?

 

How do you feel about genetically modified foods?

 

Would you ever consider marrying someone attractive, whom you’ve never met, if your friends or family thought that he or she would be good for you?

 

If I *had* to choose, for the rest of my life I would rather…

 

If after having a nice chat with someone online, they seem to be ignoring you completely the next day. Which would be closest to your reaction?

 

Art Crimes such as grafitti and other public visual expressions are..

 

Imagine that you’re taking a walk in the woods on a nice spring day. The path ahead looks interesting, but very muddy. Your shoes aren’t water proof. What do you do?

 

Overall, do you think that what you do (or plan to do) for a living makes the world a better or worse place?

 

Would you prefer to reside in a country other than the one you actually do? Assume that you could choose any other nation and would have immediate citizenship.

 

Consider your skills. Based on these, would you be able to survive at least a year in a post-apocalyptic world? Imagine no electricity, no plumbing, no grocery stores, and so on.

 

You’re in a serious relationship and your partner wants to know about your past relationships. The details are…

 

Do you believe in aliens, Big Foot, Lochness, or any other extraordinary creatures?

 

If a partner asked you to participate in a costumed event where you’d be required to role-play, would you do it?

 

Do you go to great lengths to avoid conflict?

 

I talk _____.

 

Do you ever live vicariously through characters in the stories you read or watch?

 

Would you prefer the lights on or off during sex?

 

Half of all policemen are thieves and half of all policemen are murderers. Does it follow logically that all policemen are criminals?

 

Is the following statement true? “You can only truly love another if you love yourself.”

 

How do you feel about germs?

 

Do you believe that dreams can be messages from a “higher level”?

 

When it comes to travel, which do you enjoy more?

 

Is it wrong for two adopted siblings to date each other?

 

What kind of shape are you in?

 

How do you feel about nuclear energy?

 

Etymology is…

 

Would you consider permanently living in a country other than the one you currently think of as home?

 

Would you consider dating someone who has horribly crooked teeth?

 

Is there anything that science will never be able to explain?

 

Do you have a problem with authority?

 

Would it bother you if someone you were dating let a dog lick their face?

 

Are you smarter than the majority of people on this planet?

 

Do you believe that women should be allowed to serve in the military in a front line capacity? (i.e. infantry, etc.)

 

★ What do you do with your money?

 

Do you condone free file sharing – even if it violates copyright policies?

 

Hypothetically, and if the lack of either wouldn’t affect your health, which would you give up?

 

Sleeping under the stars:

 

Would you be willing to go shopping for sex toys?

 

Do you like raves?

 

Which of these is more fascinating to you?

 

Do you own your own country’s flag?

 

★ If your partner had a problem with gambling, drugs, or alcohol abuse, do you believe it would be your place to find them help, whether it would hurt or help your relationship?

 

If you discovered that something you do is bad for the environment, would you be willing to sacrifice your time or money to correct the problem?

 

Do you drink milk and juice straight out of the carton and then put it back in the fridge?

 

★ Would you date someone with a facial piercing?

 

Would you take your top off while dancing in a nightclub? (If you’re a woman, assume you have a bikini top or bra on underneath)

 

Should machines that demonstrate human or higher levels of intelligence be granted legal rights?

 

Do you ever pick food off of other people’s plates?

 

An ex wants you to come over and hang out: a situation that is likely to lead to hooking back up with him or her. Do you:

 

Would you rather have more money or more freedom?

 

Your cell phone rings while you are having a conversation with a friend. You:

 

★ Your date for the evening surprises you with a pair of opera tickets. You

 

★ Do you make any special efforts to support small, independent businesses instead of the big chains?

 

After a breakup, should a couple try to continue their friendship?

 

Do you think advanced primates, like chimps and apes, should be afforded some degree of “human” rights?

 

Which of the following best describes Science, in your opinion?

 

Would you enjoy going fishing with your partner?

 

Which would you prefer in terms of distributing decision making power in an ‘ideal’ relationship?

 

Do you believe in the term “meant to be”? As in fate or destiny with another person?

 

★ Could you live a life full of traveling?

 

★ If you were going to name a child, which of the following sounds most appealing?

 

★ How often are you influenced by peer pressure?

 

Do you wish things like vampires, fairies, werewolves, ghosts, or something along those lines were real?

 

What is your attitude toward service-industry/hospitality professionals (waitstaff, bellhops, valets, etc.)?

 

Would you pose nude for a magazine?

 

Which is more appealing?

 

★ Do you feel that having sex with someone you have known less than one year would be too soon?

 

Which is worse, being inquisitive at the risk of seeming unsure or being confident at the risk of seeming close-minded?

 

You are more likely to have an orgasm via

 

Are you in favor of age restrictions on drinking alcohol?

 

What is your opinion of people who speak baby-talk to their pets?

 

Would you ever consider having sex in a church?

 

Which typically comes first for you?

 

Would you rather be greedy or cruel?

 

Would you consider dating someone who restricts their diet based on religious beliefs?

 

The most important question to ask yourself when making a decision is…

 

★ Would you really like to stay home and spend an entire day in bed with your significant other?

 

★ A holiday or a birthday is coming up, your partner begins the rundown, not on what he/she wants, but the rules for choosing a gift (books are tacky, flowers show lack of thought, never clothing, etc.) Is this good or bad?

 

★ If your spouse asked you to get a small discreet matching tattoo with them, would you?

 

For you, education is:

 

Do you conform with society more, or go against it?

 

Would you risk your life to protest against an unjust government?

 

How many dates does it take for a potential significant other to get a good sense of who you are as a person?

 

On average, how much alone time do you need each day?

 

Do you believe that some people can see a person’s soul, just by staring into their eyes for a few moments?

 

Would you be comfortable being a step mom or dad, if you thought the person you’re dating was marriage worthy at this time?

 

Are you annoying?

 

Do you consider yourself a truly honest person, in all aspects of your life?

 

If your partner liked to sing in public, but was often completely off-tune, how would you react?

 

Are you more of a secretive person or an open book?

 

Would you consider inviting a previous sex partner to your own wedding, if you are only friends now?

 

Do you believe that it is your duty to educate people who don’t share your religious beliefs?

 

Do you believe in reincarnation?

 

You discover that a partner has a huge amount of financial debt and has been hiding it from you. Which is closest to how you would react?

 

If you were out to dinner and your date was a vegetarian would you still order meat?

 

How do you consider yourself to be in terms of logic and emotion?

 

Would you consider having a relationship with an alcoholic who drinks regularly?

 

Do you condone speeding and/or racing on public roads (in a car or motorcycle)?

 

★ In which climate zone would you prefer to live?

 

Do you believe that art and literature courses are important to students, even if they are majoring in other fields?

 

If your partner wanted to name your first born child after some person significant to them, but you thought the name was the most horrid thing in the world, would you let them?

 

You walk out of your home first thing in the morning, late for work and in a serious hurry because you greatly enjoy your job and don’t want to lose it. At the same time, a bird with a broken wing is struggling in some bushes nearby. What do you do?

 

After meeting somebody new, is it acceptable to search the internet to find information about them?

 

Do you (or would you) like to go hunting?

 

Would you consider dating someone who, prior to meeting you, was regularly using an escort service?

 

What are your feelings when a friend shares news of something wonderful that has happened to them?

 

Your partner, out of nowhere without any warning, smacks your rear end (quite hard) while out in public… you feel mostly:

 

Little white lies to make people feel better…

 

While in the middle of the best lovemaking of your life, if your lover asked you to squeal like a dolphin, would you?

 

If I had to choose among the following for an ideal romantic partner, I’d choose:

 

What do you think of the government using cameras for surveillance in public areas?

 

Would you ever begin dating someone who has a habit you don’t approve of with the intention of eventually asking them to stop for you?

 

Would you be comfortable masturbating in front of a partner?

 

Have you ever changed a diaper?

 

If you could use your internet service for only one of the following, which would you choose?

 

How would you feel if your significant other made more money than you?

 

Would you be interested in visiting an Intelligent-Design theme park, where dinosaurs and humans are portrayed as having coexisted?

 

Would you consider dating someone who had a very shady, questionable past?

 

Would you watch a porno movie with your ideal match?

 

Let’s say you work for the government. You discover confidential documents proving that the organization you work for is misusing public funds. Which would you do?

 

Do you ever use the word “gay” as an insult or pejorative?

 

Would you consider dating someone who conducts important medical research, but the research causes pain to laboratory animals?

 

What is your opinion of couples who frequently say “I love you” to one another?

 

How important would it be for you to have a work schedule that is similar to your partner’s work schedule?

 

If you were in an extremely unhappy marriage, without children, would you get a divorce?

 

Does spending Friday or Saturday night at home annoy you?

 

Why do you dress the way you do?

 

Do you believe that people need bad things to happen to them in life in order to truly appreciate the good things?

 

Could you date someone who never, ever, threw anything away?

 

Are you living a life that is in harmony with your beliefs?

 

With respect to climate, I would prefer to live somewhere where:

 

Is it possible for something to hurt no one– physically, mentally, or in any other way– and for it still to be morally wrong?

 

Should women be just as likely to be drafted during a major war as men are?

 

Would you pick up a hitchhiker?

 

Do you think it is acceptable for a person to stand naked in their own window so that people outside can see them?

 

If you found out that your partner had lied to you about something significant in their life, would that be grounds to terminate the relationship?

 

While borrowing your friend’s new $500 digital camera… you drop it. It still seems to be working fine afterwards. Do you tell them what happened?

 

Do you typically speak and write in a clear, precise manner?

 

How do you take care of household pests (cockroaches, spiders and the like)?

 

Do you believe that money can buy happiness?

 

Which would you rather drive?

 

Imagine you discover that your ‘happily married’ best friend has a profile on a dating site, listing them as single and looking. What would you do?

 

Should law enforcement be allowed to lie to suspects during interrogation?

 

★ The diamond dependent economy of West Africa causes civil wars and crimes against humanity. Should people consider this when purchasing or receiving an engagement ring?

 

Which is the greatest compliment you could receive?

 

★ Could you date someone who is androgynous?

 

★ Can a person change who they are without betraying who they are?

 

During a romantic evening at your significant others’ house, he or she puts on a slow song and asks you to dance. How would you respond?

 

Would it bother you if someone you are dating has a lot of close friends of the opposite sex?

 

Which best describes your personal feelings about sports?

 

When you are feeling down or blue, which is most comforting to you?

 

Do you often find yourself wanting to chuck it all and go to live on a sailboat?

 

Would you continue to date someone who you felt would always put their pet(s) before you?

 

Hypothetically, would you love and support your significant other’s children the same way you would love and support your own?

 

Would you consider becoming a foster parent?

 

★ While evaluating someone you are dating, do you find yourself placing much importance on how good of a parent you think they’ll make?

 

Should it be socially acceptable for women have the choice/right to be topless in any area where it is ok for men to be topless?

 

In general, how content are you with your own appearance?

 

Which best describes your attitude toward dating?

 

How do you feel about nations spending billions of dollars on space exploration?

 

Would you be willing to engage in mutual masturbation with someone? You would be pleasing yourself and watching them do the same, but no touching each other.

 

You see someone at a party who isn’t talking to anyone. Do you

 

Would you give the police significantly more power, if it would lower crime rates?

 

Would you consider voting for a candidate from outside your own political party if they seemed superior to your party’s own candidate?

 

Are you able to make a decision and stick to it?

 

How do you feel about zoos?

 

Would you consider a serious long-term relationship with someone who insists on living alone, permanently?

 

If you had your own private hot tub, would you go nude in it?

 

You are arguing with someone and they start to act agressively. You:

 

★ Would you be attracted to someone who agreed with everything you did or said?

 

Generally speaking, do you believe that violent revolution is a legitimate method of effecting fundamental social, political, and economic change?

 

Do you think it is possible to have more than one soul mate in a single lifetime?

 

What volume level do you usually prefer when listening to music?

 

Is it possible to have a true relationship, friend or otherwise, with someone you’ve never met in person?

 

What do you think of voyeurism?

 

Would you date someone who had a serious drug addiction in the distant past?

 

Which of the following philosophies do you most closely follow?

 

How much of your love life do you tell your friends?

 

★ Do you prefer to pursue a potential partner, or for them to pursue you?

 

★ Which is more important to your life, passion or happiness?

 

Looking toward the future, which of the following do you see as most important for you in ten years?

 

★ Should the government censor publicly broadcast television and radio shows for profane language?

 

★ Would you allow your partner to kiss you after performing oral sex on you?

 

★ Do you believe that the global flood (Noah’s ark) actually happened?

 

Can someone who cheats on their partner be a fit parent?

 

★ Do you think the public should have access to any literature, regardless of its content?

 

★ Are you an intellectual? In the context of this question, intellectual means someone who loves learning, often for its own sake.

 

★ It’s your first date. Do you split the bill, pay the whole bill, have them pay the whole bill

 

Which of the following would be the best birthday or anniversary date?

 

★ Has Christianity made the world better or worse?

 

Do you think it’s okay for males to wear makeup?

 

Imagine that you receive a document that absolutely proves whether or not God exists. Upon reading the document and finding the truth, you must decide whether or not to share the proof with the world. Which would you do?

 

Would you terminate a pregnancy if the baby was going to be mentally disabled?

 

★ If after years of being with a partner, you found out that they could not have children and would not be willing to adopt, would you want to stay with them?

 

Could Evolution and Intelligent Design both be right?

 

★ Do you litter?

 

Would you get upset if your partner flirted in front of you?

 

Do you believe that heterosexual pornography is degrading to women?

 

Do you have a child or children?

 

Do you keep a budget of your finances?

 

Let’s say you are in line at a grocery store and have many items. The person behind you just has only one or two. Do you offer to let them go ahead of you?

 

What’s the best conversation material for a first date?

 

★ Would you strongly prefer to date someone of your own skin color / racial background?

 

Do you stand outside the bathroom door and talk to people while they’re taking care of business?

 

Would you say that you’re the type of person who…

 

Do you believe that scientific investigation is the only effective method to gain meaningful knowledge about the universe?

 

Is it okay to live with someone you’re dating, even before you’re engaged or married?

 

Would you ever film a sexual encounter without your partner knowing?

 

★ When texting with a potential partner, is use of proper grammar and spelling important to you?

 

Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of his/her exes (as a friend)?

 

Which is more important in a healthy relationship?

 

Would you dump someone simply because they weren’t good at sex?

 

★ Do you condone the wearing of fur for fashion?

 

If you could have one but NOT the other, would you rather:

 

Do you normally treat other people as you’d like to be treated?

 

In a relationship I like to discuss politics with my partner.

 

★ Which would you rather be?

 

★ What do you think of laws that make smoking illegal in bars and restaurants?

 

Would you continue in a relationship if you knew your partner was faking their enjoyment of sex just to make you happy?

 

At what age do children become old enough to spend several hours at home without the supervision of an adult or babysitter?

 

Imagine you have a significant other who reveals they have a video of a sexual encounter from a prior relationship and offers to show it to you. Would you want to see it?

 

★ Someone you are interested in sometimes becomes very emotional over forms of art (movies, music, poetry.) How does this make you feel?

 

For you personally, is abortion an option in case of an accidental pregnancy?

 

Would you prefer good things happened, or interesting things?

 

Do you believe that humans are the most important animal species on Earth?

 

Some religions are more correct than others.

 

★ Do you spend more money on clothes or food?

 

Which type of education would you prefer for your children?

 

★ Do you enjoy crude humor, dirty jokes, and the like?

 

When people ask for things for themselves through prayer, this seems:

 

★ Do you believe you have the right to forbid your significant other anything?

 

Do you think it is possible for two people to be just friends when one of them is romantically in love with the other?

 

Is it wrong to watch pornographic films if you’re in a relationship?

 

What’s more important?

 

If you discovered a spider on the wall in your bedroom, which would you do?

 

Generally, do you enjoy being drunk?

 

★ Outside of work and school, how inclined are you to investigate something that interests you?

 

★ Do you attempt to conserve water, energy or other resources during your everyday life?

 

If you were in a committed long-term relationship and met someone you feel an even stronger attraction to, which would you do?

 

★ Would you rather live in the big city or a small town?

 

★ If a significant other decided they wanted to have or adopt six children with you, would this be okay?

 

Is supporting the troops the same thing as supporting a war?

 

How much would it bother you if someone spoiled the end of a novel you were reading?

 

Do you believe that when a soldier kills an enemy soldier in combat during a war it is murder?

 

★ How important is art in your daily life?

 

Should the recipient give back an engagement ring if the engagement is broken off?

 

In terms of animal rights, do you believe that all species should be equally protected by law?

 

★ How do you feel about living with a signficant other before marriage?

 

A growing friendship is turning into attraction for you, but you are pretty sure the other person just wants friendship. What do you do?

 

If some men are doctors and some doctors are tall, does it follow that some men are tall?

 

Imagine that a first date picks you up in a car. The car is old and run-down, but otherwise clean. How would the car affect your opinion of your date?

 

★ Do humans and modern primates (apes, chimps, etc) share a common evolutionary ancestor?

 

STALE is to STEAL as 89475 is to…

 

Love conquers all.

 

Are you an adventurous eater? Do you like to try new foods and cuisines?

 

★ Are you happy with your life?

 

Do you like to watch sports on television?

 

Would you consider dating someone who works in a job that involves animal testing for medical purposes?

 

Have you ever been in love?

 

In general, do you think people involved in relationships are better off than people who are single?

 

Should prostitution be legal?

 

When you have plans to meet someone at a certain time, it’s best to be:

 

★ Consider the recent fictional movies you have watched. Which of the following aspects do you find most disturbing?

 

Overall, has capitalism made the world a better place?

 

★ Do you believe in God?

 

Will you teach your children to believe in Santa?

 

As long as you both agreed that nobody else would ever see the video, would you let a partner film the two of you having sex?

 

★ In a conversation are you usually…

 

★ Do you think the standard of western morality has declined in the last thirty years?

 

Are you careful with your money?

 

You have just been unfairly laid off from work. As you are leaving, you have an opportunity to steal something of value, and nobody would know. Would you take it?

 

If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

 

How many times would a person have to turn you down before you took the hint?

 

★ How important is money/wealth for you in a match?

 

How confident are you in your sexual abilities?

 

Would you consider having an open relationship (i.e., one where you can see other people)?

 

If you received a virus warning by email, would you forward it to friends or family?

 

Would you be pleased if a partner expressed the desire to be sexually humiliated by you?

 

★ How does your maturity level compare with most people your age?

 

Do you think angry or pornographic music lyrics should be kept, by law, away from kids?

 

★ Do you enjoy exercise?

 

★ If you don’t do anything at all for an entire day, how does that make you feel?

 

Regardless of whether or not you smoke marijuana, do you think it should be legalized for adults?

 

Might you consider dating someone who confided to you that he/she had a sexually transmitted disease?

 

Let’s say you ask your partner a question and know with certaintly that their answer is a lie, what do you do about it?

 

Do you find glasses attractive?

 

Would you inform law enforcement agencies about a friend committing a serious crime?

 

★ Would you consider dating someone who has undergone surgery to induce sterility?

 

How would you react if a partner bought you an outfit to be worn during sex?

 

★ What’s the highest level of education you’ve completed?

 

★ In a relationship, how important is it for you to be in control?

 

★ Which is worse: starving children or abused animals?

 

The survival of another species should be…

 

Hypothetical: You are (romantically) interested in someone. After a few dates there is definitely chemistry. Since your last encounter, they’ve had a brief fling, but are still very interested in you. How do you feel?

 

Let’s say you don’t agree with a law, one that won’t change. Which is your responsibility?

 

★ Would you fight for your country in an unjust war?

 

For the right person, how long do you think that you could sustain a long-distance relationship?

 

★ Is marriage a necessity for two people who love each other?

 

★ If an acquaintance mentioned something negative about a person you just met who otherwise seemed nice, how open would you be to give the person you just met a chance?

 

Should the death penalty be abolished?

 

Right this minute, how clean is your main personal bathroom, (say the one you use every morning when you wake up in your own bed)?

 

Would you ever record a video of yourself having sex?

 

Which is the day before the day after yesterday?

 

The life of one of your fellow citizens is more valuable than the lives of ten foreigners.

 

Would you date a transgender person?

 

★ Should burning your country’s flag be illegal?

 

★ Do you mock religion?

 

Would you ever date someone that is HIV positive?

 

★ Do you think people who have entered the country illegally should be deported?

 

★ Which of the following do you find to be the most liberating?

 

Choose the better romantic activity:

 

Imagine you are walking down the street at night and hear a cry for help. Which would you do?

 

If a partner asked you to have sex in a sex shop booth with others watching, would you?

 

How many times a week do you go out to eat?

 

How comfortable would you be talking about your own personal body waste-removal experiences with someone you are interested in?

 

Do you enjoy provoking people just to get a response?

 

Are you scared of commitment?

 

★ On your days off, do you like to get out and make the most of the day, or do you prefer to sleep late and relax?

 

★ If a partner would not respond to your emotional needs unless you made them known verbally, would you have a problem with this?

 

★ Which would you rather lose:

 

How often are you tested for STDs?

 

Graffiti that is done without permission of the owner is:

 

★ Do you believe in dinosaurs?

 

Do you approve of public nudity?

 

What’s cooler?

 

In your ideal sexual encounter, do you take control, or do they?

 

How long can you go without sexual release?

 

★ If you were visiting a new city, where would you be most excited to go?

 

Rate your self-confidence:

 

How often do you find yourself holding back your knowledge of a subject because of how it might affect your image?

 

Which of the following do you think would provide the biggest reduction in crime rates?

 

Which is longer?

 

How long does it take to know truly and understand a person you’re dating?

 

Is a welfare system a good idea? Or does taxing for it just take money away from hard-working people who earned it?

 

Serious relationships?

 

What is your opinion on acts of spreading propaganda to vilify political candidates?

 

When a relationship ends, what’s the best thing to do?

 

Could you ever date a person who was desperately unsure of themselves?

 

Would you be concerned if your partner still masturbated, even though you were sexually active together?

 

★ Were you ever addicted to an illicit substance?

 

★ Do you believe the government should be allowed to keep anything secret?

 

How trusting are you where it concerns your government?

 

★ Your significant other wants to move every few years, to experience different parts of the country or world. What’s your take on that?

 

Assuming you were in the position to do so and asked to make the final decision, would you launch nuclear weapons under any circumstance?

 

Do you find that arguing with your significant other is arousing to you?

 

Do you consider yourself to be an honorable person?

 

Would you lie to keep your lover from going to jail?

 

Would you prefer a daughter or a son?

 

At the end of an artistic performance you are attending, most of the audience stands and applauds wildly. You found the performance to be mediocre at best. In this situation, you:

 

Do you enjoy long camping trips? (longer than 3 nights)

 

If a trusted partner asked you to submit to them sexually, would you? Assume that this would involve letting them collar you, command you, and have control over you during sex.

 

Should a country always need the UN’s approval before declaring war?

 

Are people who believe in the paranormal (IE: Ghosts, Vampires, Aliens, ESP, etc.) all crazy or suffering from some sort of mental disorder/delusion?

 

★ Would you consider being in a relationship with someone who has had homosexual sex?

 

When you offer criticism, how is it most often received?

 

Are you a good liar?

 

Have you ever gotten back with someone who cheated on you?

 

“I need you” or “I want you.” Which would you prefer to hear a partner say?

 

★ Should speech be…

 

How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

 

If you previously had a sexually transmitted disease of which you have been completely cured and can no longer pass on, would you disclose this information to partners before having sex with them?

 

Is it important to you that your family approve of your relationships?

 

Imagine that a friend asks you to read a short story they wrote. Unfortunately, you find it to be very boring. Which is closest to how you might respond when they ask you what you think of it?

 

Should adults be required by law to wear seatbelts when riding as passengers in automobiles?

 

Imagine that you win $10M. Which of the following would be closest to how you would handle the winnings?

 

Do you practice or believe in real magick, not to be confused with stage magic and parlor tricks?

 

How long would a relationship have to last before you would consider seeing a counselor to resolve problems?

 

Do you find yourself affected more by movies than by real life?

 

★ You witness your next door neighbors discreetly smoking marijuana on their own property. How do you respond?

 

Would you try to create a child if you understood there to be a 1-in-4 chance it would be born with a major defect?

 

★ I accept other people’s quirks:

 

How frequently do you go out of your way to make others feel appreciated?

 

★ Are you the type of person to tell a homeless person to get a job?

 

★ Do you have a problem with people who wear fur clothing?

 

In the absense of major predators, do you support population control for large herbivores such as deer or buffalo?

 

Do you want your partner to be kinkier than you?

 

★ Would you date someone who is bisexual?

 

Would you like to have someone strap on a dildo and put it inside you?

 

Do you feel it is necessary to have a significant other at all times in your life?

 

Would you ever start a relationship with someone who was still living with an ex for financial reasons? Assume they slept in separate beds.

 

Would you do something outrageous, stupid, or adventurous simply because it would make a good story to tell later?

 

Do you believe that it is possible to experience romantic love for more than one person at a time without loving one less because of your love for the other?

 

Imagine that your partner enjoys smelling various parts of your body, especially after you had a long day or just exercised. Would you want them to do so?

 

★ If a police officer is found guilty of a crime, do you believe the punishment should be more or less severe than for the average citizen?

 

★ Are you looking for a partner to have children with?

 

Are you accepting of other people?

 

Do you believe your country would be more or less safe if every adult owned a gun?

 

Would you consider dating someone who works primarily in a formal position as part of an organized spiritual faith?

 

Would you support assisted suicide/right-to-die legislation?

 

Is it important to be friends before being lovers ?

 

Would you have sex with someone you hated?

 

How do you feel about people with past addictions?

 

While walking down the street, you see an amazingly attractive member of your preferred gender. They are completely naked and floating three feet in the air. Which is more intriguing?

 

Would you ever marry for anything other than love?

 

★ How much influence or control do your parents have over your life?

 

Would it bother you if your partner kept pictures of previous partner(s)?

 

Which of these do you use/consult the MOST when making decisions?

 

★ Which is more offensive: book burning or flag burning?

 

Would you open your spouse’s personal mail?

 

Are you narcissistic?

 

If your partner wanted you to say a specific phrase during sex, would you?

 

How would you react if your lover called you by the name of their ex?

 

Are you scared of the future?

 

Could you date someone who has (and acts on) radical-left politics?

 

★ Who is more annoying, the person who talks too much or the person who doesn’t talk enough?

 

Does hanging out in an empty field, in the middle of no where, at 2am to watch a meteor shower sound like fun to you?

 

★ Your significant other has a hobby that you find boring. They’re busy doing whatever it is they like to do, and you’re bored. What do you do?

 

A man is walking down the street and is covered with what appears to be someone’s blood. Which would be closest to your response?

 

Overall, do you think feminism has had a positive or negative impact on human civilization?

 

Which would be closest to your response if you discovered there were nude pictures of a partner on the internet?

 

Imagine your partner enjoys getting naked in public places where nudity is not socially acceptable. This would be:

 

If someone sends you an e-mail (or has a profile) full of spelling and grammatical errors, are you less likely to talk to them?

 

Could you fall in love with someone you have only talked to online?

 

Would you consider dating someone who routinely has one-way conversations with inanimate objects?

 

When it comes to gambling, which is closest to your style?

 

On a warm night, a gentle rain begins and the sky is lit bright as day by occasional flashes of cloud-to-cloud lightning. You:

 

Your significant other’s ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

 

Can you be single and truly happy at the same time?

 

Do you feel as though the craziest, most experimental stage of your life is in the past, or has yet to come?

 

Would you be interested in playing a board game or card game with a partner with the condition that whatever the winner says, in terms of sex, the loser does?

 

Are politics interesting?

 

If you were otherwise willing to enter into a marriage or life-long partnership, would you consider signing a prenuptial or equivalent agreement at the request of your partner?

 

★ Is it acceptable for a country to spend more money on its defense program, military, or war budget than on its education or welfare programs?

 

If your partner wanted to pay for you, as a couple, to see a professional dominatrix would you go?

 

Are you comfortable using the toilet while your partner is in the bathroom with you or being in the bathroom while they’re using the toilet?

 

When you take a liking to someone you…

 

★ Would you date someone who has no intention of contacting either one or both parents ever again? (Assume that the parents in question are living.)

 

★ Commitment to personal growth is:

 

Could you have a long-term relationship with someone who expressed that they felt unworthy of having you?

 

★ Who has the more honorable profession: a teacher who cultivates young minds or a soldier who defends your country?

 

Where should breast-feeding be allowed?

 

Which best describes your method for paying off financial debt?

 

★ How would you say your self esteem is?

 

★ Would you encourage the love of your life to leave if you knew he or she would be happiest with someone else?

 

Could you marry someone for a reason other than love?

 

How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

 

Do you believe in the power of prayer?

 

Imagine you discover that a close friend of yours is having an affair with a married person. Would this affect your friendship?

 

★ Do you believe that men should be the heads of their households?

 

If you found out your partner was cheating on you, would you cheat on them in revenge?

 

Imagine that, through some misfortune, your significant other loses the ability to have sex again. Do you stay with them?

 

Assuming you’ve been in a failed relationship, Does your ex-partner’s opinion still matter to you?

 

Do you get along well with shy and socially awkward people?

 

★ If you hooked up with someone and a pregnancy unexpectedly resulted, would you feel that you should get married?

 

How would you feel about learning Tantric sexual practices?

 

You just prepared some food in your kitchen and made a mess. Do you:

 

I find myself in fights with authority figures…

 

Imagine you and your significant other both have the afternoon off. If you could only choose one of the following activities to do together, which one would it be?

 

Would you ever be willing to skip out on responsibilities (such as work, school, or such) to stay at home and have sex with someone?

 

★ If you could have one wish granted, who’d benefit most from it?

 

★ Are some sex acts with consenting adults inherently wrong or immoral? Assume no unusual risk of injury.

 

Have you ever tried any sexual roleplaying?

 

Which best describes the extent of your knowledge in terms of breadth and depth?

 

How important is it for you to give expensive gifts on a regular basis when in a relationship?

 

What would you think of a romantic prospect who uses childish language when being affectionate?

 

If a company contacted you as a reference for a friend who is applying for a job, would you consider lying to help your friend get the job?

 

Would you enjoy a night in playing video games?

 

Do you find it disturbing that products are still tested on animals?

 

How does the thought of someone masturbating with you in mind make you feel?

 

★ No means NO!

 

★ If you absolutely despised your significant other’s parents, would you tell your significant other?

 

What level of trust do you think you should have for a complete stranger?

 

★ Are you an Atheist?

 

Would you consider dating someone who is in the process of getting divorced?

 

Do you like scary movies?

 

Strip clubs?

 

Would you date someone who still lives with their parents?

 

★ How often do you try things (food, activities, music, whatever) that you’ve never tried before?

 

Do you enjoy watching educational programming on television?

 

Is it ever okay to publicly argue with a significant other?

 

If Heaven and Hell really existed, to which do you think you’d be assigned?

 

Do you consider astrology to be a legitimate science?

 

Where would you prefer to live?

 

Are geeks sexy?

 

Which of the following do you consider to be the best explanation for the existence of human life on Earth?

 

Are you willing to wear uncomfortable clothes to look good?

 

★ Are you Christian?

 

★ Could you date someone who needs a great deal of alone time?

 

A few long, slow, deep kisses or lots of sweet little kisses?

 

When deciding what is right and wrong you are:

 

★ Have you ever had a sexual encounter with someone of the same sex?

 

Do you believe contraception is morally wrong?

 

Would you mind if your significant other fantasizes about other people while having sex with you?

 

★ Do you like to be friends with someone before you start a romantic relationship with them?

 

Would you be willing to pay for good sex?

 

For people who are in exclusive relationships, is fantasizing about others a form of infidelity?

 

If you were a lawyer, would you be willing to defend someone against charges for crime you were certain that they were guilty of?

 

If you and a partner lived alone together, how much time would you spend naked while in your home?

 

★ Is your ideal match well-off financially or at the very least someone who has high income potential?

 

Should a limit be placed on how many children a family can have?

 

Would you consider sleeping with someone on the first date?

 

Are you turned off when your lover farts, complains about bowel movements, or exhibits any other human characteristics as such?

 

Should children be raised to speak more than one language?

 

★ How often do you keep your promises?

 

★ Do you consider yourself to be good at clear verbal communication?

 

How many children would you ideally like to have?

 

Do you believe in an afterlife/life after death/resurrection?

 

People should not have children unless they are financially secure. Do you agree?

 

★ If you caught your child smoking pot what would you do?

 

Do you pick up after yourself? Be honest.

 

★ Which of the following persona, in other people, do you admire the most?

 

Do you like to celebrate holidays?

 

Imagine that someone you are dating seems to be falling in love with you. You like this person, but you’re clearly not falling in love. Which of the following would be closest to what you would do?

 

Do you think that people who go to jail for serious crimes deserve a second chance out in the real world?

 

How do you feel about falling in love?

 

Have you ever had multiple romantic partners during the same time period?

 

A homeless person asks you for some change. You:

 

Sexually explicit art or song lyrics should be

 

Do you have names planned out for future children?

 

★ Would you want a lover who is always open and direct about everything, if it means that you would also receive any crude negative feedback they may have for you?

 

If your date told you they were in the pornography business, in a non-sexual way (e.g. camera operator, lighting, directing) would it bother you?

 

Overall, what is a more valuable and worthy goal for society?

 

What is next in this series? 1, 4, 10, 19, 31, _

 

★ Do you spend money on a partner, buying gifts, paying for events and the like?

 

Do you like to cuddle?

 

Do you like dogs? Would you consider owning a dog as a pet?

 

Who would you rather compete against?

 

Would you be willing to participate in nudist activities to satisfy a partner’s wants?

 

Would it bother you if a date made gender-biased remarks?

 

Should frontal nudity be allowed on non-pay television?

 

When sharing a bathroom, how would you like the space to be allotted?

 

Do you think children should be allowed to play with toy guns?

 

Do you think people who are in the armed forces deserve special treatment?

 

Imagine you are at a social event and your partner says something you disagree with strongly. Which of the following would you most likely do?

 

Does it matter to you if your mate curses in front of children?

 

Which would you prefer: casually dating someone whom you see a couple times a week, a serious relationship with someone you only see every few months (assume, if you want to, equally enjoyable sex)?

 

Is the idea of spending the day at a nude beach appealing to you?

 

★ Should governments be allowed to censor the media in order to protect their citizens?

 

★ Do you bring up STD results/risk factors before you start fooling around?

 

How should people spell “women”?

 

Is it easy for you to achieve orgasm?

 

★ Which of the following is the most admirable endeavor?

 

Do you wear a seatbelt when you ride in an automobile?

 

Consciousness is…

 

Your significant other wants to go to a strip club with a few friends. What are your thoughts on this?

 

Do you use “Jesus Christ” or “God damn it” when you curse?

 

★ When I come across something I don’t understand…

 

★ Would you consider dating someone who has vocalized a strong negative bias toward a certain race of people?

 

Do you enjoy dark, violent, or disturbing music?

 

When facing a complicated situation, can you easily put yourself in another person’s shoes and consequently see things from his or her point of view?

 

When judging people, are you harsher on them than you would be on yourself?

 

How would you describe your emotional diversity?

 

Do you often have a hard time thinking of things to talk about?

 

Could you continue dating someone if their family members constantly acted rudely toward you?

 

Do you think parents who smoke in cars with very young children should be punished?

 

Have you attended a drag queen/king show?

 

If all the commercial food sources in the world closed down, how would you provide for yourself and or family?

 

Would you prefer to be taken care of in a relationship or do the caring for?

 

If you found out the person you’re dating cannot achieve orgasm without being slapped hard across the face, would you be willing to satisfy them in this way?

 

Do you enjoy finding out what makes things work the way they do?

 

★ Would you ever consider adopting a child or being artificially inseminated on your own if you gave up on finding a life partner?

 

★ Do you like going to poetry readings?

 

★ You see a police officer. How do you feel?

 

Typically, what kind of fan are you at sporting events?

 

Imagine that you live in a place where public nudity is not only legal, but also socially acceptable. Assuming that the climate is favorable, how often would you be totally naked in public?

 

Tongue rings – Hot or Not?

 

When on vacation, do you generally:

 

Imagine your date starts groping you in the car while you’re driving. Which would you be most likely to do?

 

Would you consider dating somebody who publishes the most intimate details of their relationships in their blog?

 

Which of these four is sexiest?

 

What would you do if you had an unwanted child on the way?

 

★ Do you put more weight in science or faith?

 

If you were in a serious relationship, would you mind if your significant other maintained an active profile on OkCupid?

 

Would you be willing to lie on a job resume or application if you thought it would get you the job and you were sure you wouldn’t get caught?

 

Do you have enough savings and investments to comfortably survive several months of unemployment?

 

Should healthcare be funded by the government?

 

How long do you need to chat with someone before feeling comfortable meeting in person?

 

Which body type do you prefer?

 

Do you ever not feel like having sex because you feel too unattractive or too unappealing?

 

★ How important is it to you that a potential partner continues to educate himself/herself as an adult?

 

Assume that you and your partner have different religious beliefs. If you have a child together, which religion would you force the child follow?

 

Is separation of church and state important to you?

 

Do you think you could still be genuinely happy if you weren’t in a relationship with anyone?

 

You can tell a lot about a person from their appearance.

 

Do you believe in fate?

 

Do you need alone time to re-charge after social situations?

 

★ How often do you wash your dishes?

 

Do you expect your partner to back you up in a dispute if you’re in the wrong?

 

If you had to choose one of the following, which best describes the role of sex in your life?

 

What haircolor, or shade, do you prefer?

 

Do you leave the lights on after leaving a room when they are no longer necessary?

 

★ Is art important to you?

 

If you were performing oral sex on a partner who accidentally farted, how do you think you would react?